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TMI Tuesday - yes, it is Tuesday

It’s time for another fascinatingTMI Tuesday. 1. ​You can only keep 3 things: (pick and explain your choices) Coffee - my morning fuel (gasoline!!)
Books - my way to transport my self to other realms, live as someone else and new experiences
Wine or Beer
Netflix - I need my movies (a movie junkie at heart)
Tacos 2. If your job gave you a surprise 3-day paid break, what would you do with those three days? Go to a spa and relax, pamper myself to the max 3. Have you ever had a threesome? What was the configuration? FFF - all females 4. In a threesome, do you like to be the star attraction or a bit player/personal  assistant? dont like threesomes...I like all the attention for me and give my full attention to my partner 5. Would you have another  threesome? nah, all set, had the experience, it was cool and moving on Bonus:  Rate your last  threesome on a scale of 1-5, 5 being fantastic. 4 - it was exciting for the simple fact we had fun, it was not planned, but it is not something I …
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TMI Tuesday - It's tricky

Greetings & Salutations. Another TMI Tuesday presented today to jump-start your writing, jog your memory, and spur deep thought. It’s tricky… 1. Is falling in love effortless?

I don't know how to answer it
Yes and No
love sometimes happens, like, love at first sight and for some will come take time..

2. Is your significant other most like your mom or your dad?

he is lucky, neither one

3. Which parent do you identify with most?

might be my father...I don't know him at all, but I know for sure is not my mother.

4. What one thing are you lacking that you believe will make your life run smoother?

self discipline!!

5. Which is sexier: constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?

constantly pushing the boundaries.... Bonus:Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?

depends what one is confessing...i think


TMI Tuesday - Straight out or the sexy way

It’s the end of the month, don’t let it get away without playing TMI Tuesday!
Tell it to us straight orsexy…1. One thing that you will never do again?
I really can't think of anything 2. Who knows you the best?
believe it or Papi mine!
man can tell what i am thinking, what i am going to say next, how i will react depending on the situation, it amazes me!

and of course MOM 3. Do you think a relationship should be 50/50 all the time?
yes, depending on what it is.
Bills would be a great one! 4. When was your most recent act of kindness? Was it appreciated?
Last week, and yes it was :) 5. Are you a good friend? Why or why not?
I am, very loyal as well, understanding and I don't judge! 6. What is something that you tried really hard to like but just couldn’t?
The fucking GYM!!! Bonus: How was your month of July? Did you do anything fun, interesting, new?
exciting because my brother came from Korea and will be finally retiring within a year.  My cousin who I have not seen for 31 years visi…

TMI Tuesday - Life is hard

How are you doing? Check yourself by playing thisTMI Tuesday.Free yourself. . .
1. What do you need to learn but won’t admit to?
I have many things that I need to learn and relearn...that I don't admit to?  sheesh...I am at an age that I have no reason to not admit a thing...I have no shame in my game 2. If you could erase one event from your life, which one would you choose? Briefly describe the event, tell us why you would erase it.
getting molested as a little girl...(no need to explain..self explanatory) 3. Who drains your energy, and why do you let it happen?
at this middle child.  I have allowed it to happen because she is my child (26 yrs old), but is getting to the point that I can't handle it anymore 4. Do your practice ‘self-love’ or ‘self-loathing’?
self-love, each and every day.  I have no problem in this department 5. What must you do daily to keep yourself ‘sane’?
I am not sane, will never be....there is nothing I can do to keep me sane...I am naturally crazy Bo…

TMI Tuesday - are you listening?

Working from my phone...ehehe
Thought-provoking TMI Tuesday blog post here for your enjoyment.

Hello, we’re listening.

1. Picture the child you once were, what did that child do very well?

I think as a child most of the things I srt my mind to do I could do, except sports2. What are you really good at now?Everything I want to do...I am creative, I can cook (great at that).  Like I said, just about everything I set my mind to.

3. Did you ever expect love in return and not get it?

When it comes to that I move on4. Who do you need to get in touch with because it has been so long?Many of my family members, like uncles and aunts

5. What are your thoughts on this: “Every woman deserves her special day. I get that. But does it really have to cost so much fucking money? I mean, c’mon. If you’re serious about building a future with a guy, why bankrupt him?”

Every day should be special.  At least a few minutes to be and feel appreciated.
If my guy is willing to take one day to show me how much I am …

TMI Tuesday - Sex is Life

Heyyyy! TMI Tuesday time again. 1. Is your sex life more fantasy or reality?
fantasy - because when I have sex is all in my mind at the moment. 2. If you could hook-up with a past lover (with no repercussions or regret), who would it be and why? (No need to use real names just briefly describe the person and their relationship to you.) puppy love.  He was like the type of guy I thought I would get married to, we met when we were kids and his family adored me, until this day they still have a picture of me in their living room and in contact with his sisters and brother. 3. You can only indulge in one of the following sex acts for the rest of your life, which would you choose to enjoy? a. oral sex, only giving b. 69 c. oral sex, only receiving d. mutual masturbation

wtf!! no way I will give oral sex and not receive, not a big fan of 69 and mutual masturbation?? that was the only one that I sorta like, but still lame, I know, I only a question but I took it rather personal 😛😝 …

TMI Tuesday - Look at me now

Take a Look at Me Now.
1. What was your biggest worry five years ago, do you still have that same worry or feel the same about it at this minute?
I think it has been my worry for a bit longer than 5 years...ending up alone waiting or chasing a dream of what it could be 2. Do you have a positive or negative body image? What factors contribute to your self body image? a. advertisements b. media and social media c. comments from others d. introspection and analysis of self - I love me!! i have high self esteem and dont feel like i need others' approval or permission  3. How confident are you as a person? a. no confidence at all b. confident around friends and family c. confident at work, and in my job d. very confident in my surroundings–work, social settings, with strangers - I work it!! 4. How creative a person are you? Why? a. not creative b. average creativity c. creative in some situations d. very creative 5. Do you resent things being uncertain and unpredictable? Why? a. agree b. undecided or Don’…