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TMI Tuesday

Why is eating bad food,like having bad sex?
1. Do you like tattoos? Do you have any tattoos?
I love tattoos!  and I do have a few and I am working on fixing the ones I have and getting some new ones

2. How did you pick your online profile name?

I play a game callSecond Lifeand one of my Avatars (i have 12) is called Atiya - Gorean slave..Atiya means gift 3. What’s one saying you try to live by?

Yesterday is gone, today is what matter, tomorrow is not promise to anyone 4. What was the last bad meal you ate? Why was it so awful?
February 27, 2016 - the first time I ordered eggs Benedict...the presentation awful, the taste even worse!!
Click for the link to view a pic of it 5. When was your last bad sexual encounter? Why was it so awful?

OMG! the Italian!
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TMI Tuesday - running through my brain

Download and dish all your TMI here, at TMI Tuesday. 1. If you had three wishes that would come true, what would they be?
finally have my partner next to me.
have money in the bank*
travel, go away every weekend
(*in order to have money in the bank, i wanna work less and smarter, earn more) 2. What are your favorite things to spend money on?
shoes, and traveling 3. If you could write a song about your life, what type of music would you use?
would start as a slow song, move into a merengue, regueton, salsa and end in classical music 4. If you could choose your partner again, would you choose the same person?
yes, i think it was fate we met 5. When it comes to discussing your sex life, who do you confide in more than anyone else?
I would have to say Morgun, Chiqui, and the nurse (name has been changed to protect the innocents) Bonus: What’s your definition of cheating? Is there really such a thing?
this word has changed for me through the years...
I have no idea what my definition of it would be.


TMI Tuesday - yes, it is Tuesday

It’s time for another fascinatingTMI Tuesday. 1. ​You can only keep 3 things: (pick and explain your choices) Coffee - my morning fuel (gasoline!!)
Books - my way to transport my self to other realms, live as someone else and new experiences
Wine or Beer
Netflix - I need my movies (a movie junkie at heart)
Tacos 2. If your job gave you a surprise 3-day paid break, what would you do with those three days? Go to a spa and relax, pamper myself to the max 3. Have you ever had a threesome? What was the configuration? FFF - all females 4. In a threesome, do you like to be the star attraction or a bit player/personal  assistant? dont like threesomes...I like all the attention for me and give my full attention to my partner 5. Would you have another  threesome? nah, all set, had the experience, it was cool and moving on Bonus:  Rate your last  threesome on a scale of 1-5, 5 being fantastic. 4 - it was exciting for the simple fact we had fun, it was not planned, but it is not something I …

TMI Tuesday - It's tricky

Greetings & Salutations. Another TMI Tuesday presented today to jump-start your writing, jog your memory, and spur deep thought. It’s tricky… 1. Is falling in love effortless?

I don't know how to answer it
Yes and No
love sometimes happens, like, love at first sight and for some will come take time..

2. Is your significant other most like your mom or your dad?

he is lucky, neither one

3. Which parent do you identify with most?

might be my father...I don't know him at all, but I know for sure is not my mother.

4. What one thing are you lacking that you believe will make your life run smoother?

self discipline!!

5. Which is sexier: constantly pushing the boundaries or playing by the rules?

constantly pushing the boundaries.... Bonus:Do you think confessions make a relationship stronger?

depends what one is confessing...i think


TMI Tuesday - Straight out or the sexy way

It’s the end of the month, don’t let it get away without playing TMI Tuesday!
Tell it to us straight orsexy…1. One thing that you will never do again?
I really can't think of anything 2. Who knows you the best?
believe it or Papi mine!
man can tell what i am thinking, what i am going to say next, how i will react depending on the situation, it amazes me!

and of course MOM 3. Do you think a relationship should be 50/50 all the time?
yes, depending on what it is.
Bills would be a great one! 4. When was your most recent act of kindness? Was it appreciated?
Last week, and yes it was :) 5. Are you a good friend? Why or why not?
I am, very loyal as well, understanding and I don't judge! 6. What is something that you tried really hard to like but just couldn’t?
The fucking GYM!!! Bonus: How was your month of July? Did you do anything fun, interesting, new?
exciting because my brother came from Korea and will be finally retiring within a year.  My cousin who I have not seen for 31 years visi…

TMI Tuesday - Life is hard

How are you doing? Check yourself by playing thisTMI Tuesday.Free yourself. . .
1. What do you need to learn but won’t admit to?
I have many things that I need to learn and relearn...that I don't admit to?  sheesh...I am at an age that I have no reason to not admit a thing...I have no shame in my game 2. If you could erase one event from your life, which one would you choose? Briefly describe the event, tell us why you would erase it.
getting molested as a little girl...(no need to explain..self explanatory) 3. Who drains your energy, and why do you let it happen?
at this middle child.  I have allowed it to happen because she is my child (26 yrs old), but is getting to the point that I can't handle it anymore 4. Do your practice ‘self-love’ or ‘self-loathing’?
self-love, each and every day.  I have no problem in this department 5. What must you do daily to keep yourself ‘sane’?
I am not sane, will never be....there is nothing I can do to keep me sane...I am naturally crazy Bo…

TMI Tuesday - are you listening?

Working from my phone...ehehe
Thought-provoking TMI Tuesday blog post here for your enjoyment.

Hello, we’re listening.

1. Picture the child you once were, what did that child do very well?

I think as a child most of the things I srt my mind to do I could do, except sports2. What are you really good at now?Everything I want to do...I am creative, I can cook (great at that).  Like I said, just about everything I set my mind to.

3. Did you ever expect love in return and not get it?

When it comes to that I move on4. Who do you need to get in touch with because it has been so long?Many of my family members, like uncles and aunts

5. What are your thoughts on this: “Every woman deserves her special day. I get that. But does it really have to cost so much fucking money? I mean, c’mon. If you’re serious about building a future with a guy, why bankrupt him?”

Every day should be special.  At least a few minutes to be and feel appreciated.
If my guy is willing to take one day to show me how much I am …