Friday, December 2, 2016

Tuesday, November 29, 2016

TMI Tuesday - Love, Emotion, Trust

TMI TuesdayHere we go!

love emotion trust

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1. What would you do to leave a great impression with a person on your first date?

honestly, I would not know, I am not even worried about the type of impression I may give him, I am more concentrating on the impression he is giving me (nowadays is very hard to please me and what a turn off!  I am just glad I left the dating scene behind)
2. Do you usually follow your heart or your head?

heart and head consult each other, usually when something hard comes along I let my head handle it cause my heart always deceives me
3. If your significant other told you to jump off a tall cliff and told you that you’ll land safely because there’s a net you can’t see yet, would you blindly trust your s.o. and jump?

only if he jumps with me
4. How do you support your significant other?

by listening when He needs someone to listen (kinda of hard cause i talk even in my sleep), be available when he needs me (at all times)...the fact that I am there when he needs me and when he doesn't
5. What types of things or gestures/acts make you feel love?

I am only referring to my Papi
when he says i love you out of the blue, or writes it down.  When he shares very personal things without me asking (this means a lot cause he likes to keep things to himself and bottled up).  When we are eating together and he serves on just one plate so we both eat out of it (he feeds me *grins*)
when he sends me pictures out of the blue...and I can't think of any more
6. What types of things or gestures/acts make you feel respected?

same as above
7. Can you have emotional intimacy without physical intimacy? Explain.

isn't it the same as having an online relationship?
Bonus:  In 2016, what was your most conflicted emotional moment?

I had a few but nothing like tearing my ACL and Meniscus and putting me months behind on everything (bills)
due to it I haven't been able to take a vacation, I feel i am working more and not accomplishing much at all, it has been all about catching up 😭😳


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Tuesday, November 22, 2016

TMI Tuesday - Sexy is as Sexy does

Sexy TMI Tuesday here. Internet capabilities have taken sex as a social tool to a whole new level.

Sexy Is As Sexy Does

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1. How often do you sext?

If you include innuendos I would have to say on a daily basis
2. How many dick pics have you sent in the last 3 months? 6 months? Year?

I don't have a dick...but I used to get a few dick pics weekly when I used to talk to guys from different sites.
3. Do you prefer to send pics of your boobs or your vajayjay (aka pussy, in case you didn’t know)?

easier to do boobs, to do the vajayjay is too much work, right angle, shaved, etc.
4. Do you prefer to receive pics of boobs or a woman’s genitals?

Not really...
5. Dick pics, do you really think they are sexy?

depends, some can be sexy - If I am asking for the pic, but for those who just voluntarily send them, without a warning...ehrr, nope.  I would have to be in the mood.
6. Do you send unsolicited pics of your genitals?

Nope, only when he tells me to
7. Are you more impressed and willing to get to know, meet-up with, date, or have sex with someone who presents a “good dick pic” or “nice tits” pic?

nope, I like to be surprised.  I like the mystery of things, unwrapping my own gifts.

Bonus: Just how sexy are you?
extremely!!



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Sunday, November 20, 2016

Sinful Sunday - Procrastination


should be at home, enjoying lazy Sunday, instead...I have to work...
procrastination - my worst best friend

kiss the lips and see who else is having a sinful sunday

Friday, November 18, 2016

Friday is Boobday - waiting for the weekend


it is almost here!
instead of resting so much I should take advantage of the wonderful weekend to go out on adventures again instead of spending it sleeping, eating and watching movies

Happy Friday!

click to check out gorgeous boobs on this amazing Friday

Thursday, November 17, 2016

Brooms R us - why I took a part time job

I don't know how many have heard the phrase or quote "the more money more problems", there is also a song with the title in case you didn't know.
I didn't understand the definition of it until I began working a part time to make extra money in order to pay off my car a bit sooner, have money to go out on weekends, go out to eat, and put money away, etc.

Unfortunately since I started making extra cash everything that could go wrong has gone wrong.  If it's not one thing, it is another.  I even thought about giving it up blaming all of my resent misfortunes to the fact I am making more money.
It is contract work, so I get hit with a 1099 at the end of the year in which I have to pay the taxes for, so in other words it hasn't been so much of a help as I thought it would be, eventually it is going to add to my income and put me in a higher tax bracket.

I have not accomplished any of the things I set out to do:
Haven't paid extra money on the car, haven't paid off the car insurance or the apartment insurance, in fact, I feel I have fallen behind.
How could this be possible?

Maybe is lack of planning on my behalf, but whatever it is I need to take a step back and figure this out.
I did finance a car this year and have an extra monthly expense of $400 I  didn't have before, not to mention rent went up an extra $125 a month, my daughter and her friend (who lives with us) stayed without a job in September and just started working about a week ago, so I've had to deal with all the expenses on my own, including helping my daughter pay for her school, thank goodness starting this month she can take care of that herself.
It has been a lot to deal with.
There are times I want to quit but then I will think about it for a few minutes and I ask myself..."what would I be doing if I wasn't cleaning?  Probably sitting in front of the TV wasting away watching Netflix" after answering my own question I gladly grab the mop and the broom and happily whistle while I work.

Every night I go around with a broom or a vacuum bitching and complaining on how much I work this days, how I don't have a life anymore, how all I do is eat, shit, sleep and work, and the things I see around and encounter while doing the cleaning set me off and have me swearing for about an hour straight.
Every night when I put the supplies away I keep saying how it is going to be my last night and how I am going to train someone to take over but by the time I get outside and to the car I remember the responsibilities I have, my goals and I take it back.
Not to mention that last night I realized how much material I have acquired to write a post or two, even more, on a weekly basis.
Just look for the label "Brooms R us" in the near future to read about the adventures and complaints of this cleaning lady, and I have plenty of them to go around, I just didn't think of putting them in the blog a bit sooner, and sometimes I am so tired when I get out I have no energy to do a thing, but you will hear about it with more details very soon.

I am just hoping to organize myself and accomplish some of the goals I have...organizing myself will be key to my success.

Sincerely Yours
Aluv




Tuesday, November 15, 2016

TMI Tuesday - big shoes to fill

TMI Tuesday posted, during wee hours of the morning.
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1. What shoes would  you like  to fill today?

my own!!  specially my high-heels since I haven't been able to wear any since the knee injury

2. What is the next big dollar purchase you are planning to make?

tiny house

3. You have $100,000 to spend on friends. How would you spend it?

buy a vacation home that they all can use

4. You have $5,000 to spend on your significant  other. How would  you spend it?

a nice and most needed vacation

5. What is your favorite waste of time ?

procrastinating...this past weekend I really gave a new meaning to couch potato/vegetable status
Bonus: Tell us about the most mischievous  thing you did as a kid.

gosh, if I only have to pick just one...that is kind of hard.
When I was 7 I planned to run away, for some reason the first thing I packed was the liquor and then my clothes.   


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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!