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TMI Tuesday - Life and Living

Contemplation. Life. These are the questions,TMI Tuesdayquestions.Life and Living

1. If happiness was a currency, what kind of work would make you rich?
Cooking!   2. Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing?
I know I am on this earth to serve and help, at the moment I feel that I am settling because when I took this job (Teacher/Instructor) it was mostly because of mothers hours, and the flexibility.  
My kids are grown and I am too comfortable, I should be working where I want to work instead of settling. 3. If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently?
hell yeah!  will think of myself and do more for myself 4. Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things?
I guess..doing things right. 5. If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be?
work hard during your youth so when you get to be my age you can relax and take things easier Bonus: When it’s all said and don…
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TMI Tuesday - Make out sessions, quickies and favorite lovers

Hey folks! Have a great week. Start it off right by playing TMI Tuesday. 1. Would you take a course in advanced sex positions? Why?
probably i would
just to gain more flexibility  2. “Did you orgasm?”  Men: Do you ask your sex partners this? Women: Have you been asked this? Men, why do you ask this question? Women, do you mind being asked this question?
In the past I've had to deal with this but my Papi mine can feel when I am having wonderful. 3. “Was it good for you?” Have you ever asked this question after having sex? Were you ever told “No, it was not good.” If yes, what did you do?/. 
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October 10, 2015
Wishing I had it everyday 5. When is that last time you had a “quickie”– sex lasting 5 minutes or less? How often do you engage in “quickies”?
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TMI Tuesday - Important Questions

Important Questions 1. If you are on facebook, when was the last time you had to “unfriend” someone and why?
about a month ago.
friendship request came about, didn't see who it was from just that we had a few people in common (2-3), a few hours after I accepted the request they canceled their fb. 2. What are you addicted to?
Internet browsing and stress (I work better under it) 3. What are the first 3 things you do every morning?
exact order 1. check my phone
2. meditate
3. shower 4. How lucky are you and why?
haaaa!!!! pleeease, I dont want to go there!
nuf said 5. What is one thing you’re embarrassed to admit you want to try?
I am over 40, I think I am over and done with been embarrassed, I no longer have any shame in my game Bonus: Are you proud of what you are doing?

some of it I am, but in some aspects of my life I am so terribly disappointed in myself


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TMI Tuesday - Times are changing

TMI Tuesday…play it, enjoy it! Times keep-a-changin’ 1. Does your workplace have a “casual Friday” or a day when you can dress down or out of uniform?
no, it is weird, is like an assigned jeans' day, you also have to put money in a jar as well (only a dollar)
No casual friday for moi! 2. Has the growth of social media and unabashed sharing of personal info on social media made you MORE or LESS cautious about  your privacy?
I try to keep it private but the way all accounts someway and somehow get linked even if we are using different emails, I swear it has to do with face detection! 3. Is gay marriage legal where you live?
very much so!  I think it was the first state to put it too 4. Is smoking marijuana legal where you live? Under what circumstances?
yes it is...they are still working on it though, but can't get arrested for smoking or for having less than a ounce on you if its not bagged in a way that will be distributed (sold) 5. Give us a hashtag that best describes your weekend. Has…

T is for Time

Time is precious, isn't it?
When we are young it goes by so slow...
you know how long I had to wait for the three wise kings to come around and give me my awesome toys every 6 of January?
Summer vacation?
Christmas? after moving to this country.
my first snow fall.
My birthday - until I began associating that day with bad memories
Getting boobs and waiting for them to grow the size I thought I wanted them to be
And so it went...waiting for time to rush, to go by, to pass.
those times were so precious, the only thing left now is the wish that time would slow down. I missed the Letter S, actually, I wrote the post on Saturday but forgot to publish, so very typical of me.  I began writing and got distracted with something else, the day went by and I only remembered when I woke up Sunday morning.  Was it too late?
For the past week or so I have been reflecting about my life, things I want, things I will feel happy having in my life, and things that I can and should be doing to get whe…