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What did I learn this year and my highlights?

woweee...lets see how this goes.....

I allowed my emotions to get the best out of me, I loved unconditionally and blindly, I let my guard down...
It was the best love I ever gave and the most I ever gave to another (in a romantic level)

I am a great woman and I know how to love, give love and I am proud of that, I know when it is with the right person I will know how to love him and appreciate 'us'

I am driven, determined and I can do anything I set out to do :)

I am a great mom, yup!

My children and I became closer this year! **two thumbs up**

I loved and lost :) lesson learned
Learned to let go, forgive and forget.

I learned to listen to my body, and follow my guts and instincts..pffft..I will always follow those, they didn't fail me a bit!! i was right on the money all along.

I did my 52 TMI Tuesday blog! didn't miss one at all!!

I kept up with my resolutions!

I did a page called 366 days of me in 2012, will be posted January 1st 2013 LOL - I missed a few days, I a…

Resolutions ~December~

my birth month
so many changes, drastic changes in a month
learning to forgive, forget and keep walking
A new year
new resolutions (not carrying ol'baggages from 2012)

**Sometimes, our eyes need to be washed by our tears so that we can see life with a clearer view again**
1. Get fit - make and exercise plan and a meal plan and stick to it!! I found my way, took me 11 months but I can say I am doing well!!
6 weeks to OMG - the book LOL incorporated a few of their methods and is slow progress, but I am healthier.
I see food in a different way
Looked for alternatives to a healthier way of eating and enjoying what I eat without compromising taste, and not feeling guilty of what I eat and when I eat it.

2. Budget! Budget! Budget!
On Track!!

3. GET ON THE ROAD - Register my vehicle!DONE
4. Become a US citizen...yaaayyy - in the process!!
Did not get done, I guess it will get done when it gets done...

5. Organize myself and keep up!
I love it!
is working

6. Sit down on a wee…

The Yes or No Sex Survey

Cougar in Training  borrowed this from Hubman, so go see his and her answers...and now I taking it from them, tons of yes or no questions...


1. Have you ever had intercourse?
2. Oral Sex: Given or received an orgasm
3. Licked an ass?
4. Had your ass licked?
5. Stuck your tongue in their ass?
6. Swallowed Cum?
7. Practiced Bondage or BDSM ?
8. Had anal sex?
9. Had an orgasm from anal sex?
10. Ever squirted or made someone squirt?
11. Had sex with someone of the same sex?
12. Did a threesome?
13. Did a foursome?
14. Been in an Orgy?
15. Been in a gangbang?
16. Had sex in public?
17. Snowballed (swapping cum) with someone?
18. Had your toes licked or sucked?
19. Licked or sucked someone’s toes?
20. Had sex with more than one person (one on one only) in a day?
21. Had sex with more than one person (one on one only) in a week?
22. Had cyber sex or phone sex?
23. Reached an orgasm?

Yes or No

I saw this game in the Hubmans Hangout and also at My little Secrets blog...Secret asked for other to joining her...and of course....

I am always down for a game...

Easy to play, just answer Yes or No, do not elaborate unless you are asked to do so!

Taken a picture naked?  Yes
Made money illegally?  Yes
Had a one night stand? No
Been in a fist fight?  Yes
Slept with your best friend?  No
Had sex in a public place?  Yes
Ditched work to have sex?  Yes
Slept with a member of the same sex?  Yes
Seen someone die?  No
Ran from the police?  Yes
Woke up somewhere and not remember how you got there?  Yes
Worn your partners unmentionables?  Yes
Fallen asleep at work?  Yes
Used toys in the bedroom?  Yes
Ran a red light?  Yes
Been Fired?  No
Been in a car accident?  Yes
Pole danced or done a striptease?  Yes
Loved someone you shouldn't?  Yes
Sang Karaoke?  Yes
Done something you told yourself  you wouldn't?  Yes
Laughed so hard you peed your pants?  No
Caught someone having sex?  Yes

A great Bday

I am 38, and I am so proud to say it.
I look good for a woman my age...I love my genes!!
Did my hair, new color, cut the bangs, blow dry and it looks so healthy...i have more surprises but in due time..

Every year for my Bday I am either sick or going through emotional issues, needless to say it was the same this year


I did things different yesterday :) and turned things around


I was born the day of the innocents in the Dominican Republic (December 28th), it is what they call Aprils fool in the US.  My grandfather took the almanac and told my mom to name me Inocencia o.O
I am glad my mother was a defiant child and did what she thought was best, I have a beautiful and unique name and I love it!  Just like me..hehe
That is funny, I was born Aprils Fool...Dominican Style!! LOL


My friend surprised me for lunch, he put this beautiful PowerPoint presentation together about my life...LOL, it was kinda of cool …

WoW Day ~Throwback~

I was not prepared for todays wow...needless to say, I haven't even been feeling myself this days.
is like watching a movie of myself, is like i am standing outside my body just looking at feels unreal.

I am going back to last year's wow day, it was on my birthday...and it is a WOW to me because I was going through almost the same pain I am going through now.

Sincerely Yours

TMI Tuesday ~Merry Christmas~

Merry Christmas & Happy TMI Tuesday! ** and our last TMI Tuesday of 2012!!!
I didn't miss one this year!! hehe, Yeah baby!!

1. What is the best thing you received for Christmas?

I received a lot of Victoria Secret stuff this year, the perfumes, I would have to say the

2. What is the best gift you gave for Christmas?

wow, I can't really pick one...but the fact i cooked and it came out good for the dinner...and I actually showed up!!

3. What is your Christmas wish?

To feel normal again :) for the pain to go away...and world peace...hehehe

4. What are you plans for New Year’s Eve?

Been invited to a few parties, lets see how it develops from here til then!

Bonus: The end of the world aka the Mayan apocalypse did not occur on 12/21/2012. Nonetheless people across the world prepared for the doomsday event. How did you prepare for the end of the world?

I didn't prepare a thing, all I have is seeds to plant and a few candles to burn.  For some reason I believed not a thin…

Night Before Christmas Sexy Version

for the fun of it!!
I found this poem, I tweaked it just a bit...
forgot exactly where it came from...just want to make sure I don't take the credit for something someone else wrote!!

'Twas the night before Christmas, when all through the house Not a child or husband was stirring, not even a mouse; The stockings slung over the mantle with care, In hopes that the dildos, butt plugs, and crops would magically be there
All cozy and alone nestled all snug in my bed, while visions of hot men danced in my head and me naked under my rub, hair up in a Santa's hat,  I had just settled down for a long winter's nap
When out on the lawn there arose such a clatter I jumped from the bed to see what was the matter away to the window I flew like a flash Tore open my robe and threw off the sash.
The moon on my breasts and the new-fallen snow Gave the luster of mid-day to the surprise below when what to my wondering eyes should appear, but a bunch of hot men and their cute reindeer

Consequences of breaking up

Today I am taking the day to go through all my accts and emails and change all the passwords.

I didn't keep secrets from "him", needless to say, he had all the passwords to my accounts.
Is not like he is going to go through my stuff, but still, is something I need to do, must do.

Since we spent so long in Second Life, it is full of memories, those I am just putting in a folder, but having to go through each AV and each inventory, pffft that's a lot of work...i am sure it will take me a few days (2 if I rush it).

My emails are all set :) everything on folders; no, I dont get rid off anything, lol, I am hoarder of say the least , I still have the first letter my X•husband wrote to me in 1993, talk about saving things...

I really want to thank the people who are there for me, helping me get through.
Time heal all wounds, and I was wounded very deeply, but like my friends say "baby girl, is his loss, when he realizes what he lost, he will regret it"
I d…

What a morning

I was really worried today when I went into the emergency room.

My blood pressure was sky high! 
Migraine kicking my ass for three days now (is hormonal)
Been up for more than 48 hours, I really wanted to get some sleep but they pumped so much medication in me I napped a bit earlier and it seems I will be up for a very long time!

One thing is for sure!
I was sick, my face looked like hell but I was styling!!

I wasnt able to keep snapping pics, didn't want them to know, the flash was going to give me away...the pic was actually taken to send my co-workers and some friends, that asked me how i was doing, feeling, etc...
I didn't want to show my face, they really would've been worried, so I took a pic of my shoes...they can always tell on my mood by the way I dress and the shoes I wear.
And of course, Christmas party today, I needed to look awesome, but instead I was in the hospital for quite a few hours!

BP is down
Migraine is gone
I took a long nap
Feeling much, much …

Quotes at night...*Criminal Intent*

I watch Criminal Intent just about every night...
Did you know that it always begins and ends with a quote?
Since I have been watching it I always put attention to the quotes, some I have written down over the years, at least the ones that called my attention...for one reason, or another...
some of my favorite ones

"The farther backward you can look, the farther forward you will see"
~Winston Churchill~

"Other things may change us, but we start and end with family"
~Anthony Brandt~

"There are some that only employ words for the purpose of disguising their thoughts"

"We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others, that in the end, we become disguised to ourselves"
~Francois de la Rochefoucauld~

"Of all the animals, man is the only one that is cruel.  he is the only one who inflicts pain for the pleasure of doing it"
~Mark Twain~

"Man is least himself when he talks in his own person.  Give him a s mask, and he will…

From my Second Life blog

Tales of an Avatar in Love <--- Click here to view

Sometimes when in love we give the person attention, we nurture them, we find every given possible way to make them feel loved, cared for, and of course constantly work with them to improve the relationship.

Since it is great to feel loved, respected, appreciated, and to know we have our better half backing us up 100% in everything we set out to do, and decisions we make, good or bad, knowing that someone will always be there to support us through thick and thin, not judge us for who we really are, accept and love our faults/imperfections as much as they appreciate our perfections and success...
It is what I wanted to give and gave in my last "relationship" affair.

Unfortunately there are people who believe because a person gives 100% of themselves to another and the relationship that they have become the center of their universe and probably do not have a life aside from them.

People are only as important in our lives as…

WoW Day ~Under the Christmas Tree~

Getting my beads on!!

Magical Christmas
Sincerely Yours

TMI Tuesday ~The Sexiest Thing~

1.  What is the sexiest thing you've done in the last two months?

uhh *scratching my head*
I guess posting my WOW pics every Wednesday!!

2.  What is the sexiest thing you've worn in the last 30 days?

my birthday suit each night when i lay down to sleep...

3.  What is the sexiest thing you've watched in the last 30 days?

A clip from the secretary when she is laying over the desk and he spanks her...
dang, I feel I am in the wrong career!!

4.  What is the sexiest thing you've heard in the last two weeks?

someone also told me I am the most erotic and exotic little thing he ever laid eyes on (hehe, he got taste!!!)

5.  What is the sexiest thing you've said in the last 24 hours?

I am just too good at everything I do...(teaching a student how to solder) LOL

Bonus:  Tell us or show us something sexy.

Why sure!!!!


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions…

Watching the sun come up!

As I sat on the kitchen chair, a tight grip around the mug feeling the warmth in my hands, I look up and there it was! the sun, or at least the bit I could I see from it at the beginning, it was just a very small dim light from the distance. I was staring it at as it started to rise, the light getting stronger, and I watched for a few minutes, I just saw it getting bigger and bigger, like coming out from behind the building, as if it was hiding...peeking through my window, I grabbed my phone and began to take shot after shot...

What a beautiful sunrise!!

Sincerely Yours

It's Beginning to look a lot like Christmas...

Although tragedy strucked our nation once again this year, I know we will once again prevail, with strength, love, faith and support for each other...

I was decorating at work today and on my way home I was looking around at all the houses in the neighborhoods around who have all their decorations out in display.
Is not even close to last year.  Last year it really didn't even feel like Christmas for some reason, people were  not so much in the spirit, hardly any decorations around...and it was magical driving around on this snowy night and seen all the beautiful creations all over peoples yards!!
So beautiful

When my kids were younger we used to get in the car and drive all over looking at houses that be doing it up and going all out with Christmas decorations!
There was this particular guy who will turn his entire backyard into a miniature town with trains all over! It was gorgeous! Tonight was a small reminder of that!!

Wondering if we will have a white Christmas this year.  S…

WTF is going on?

All this killings and violence is getting out of hand!!
The Oregon mall shooting, 2 dead, and they are calling it a miracle because the guy was just going crazy shooting all over the place and they are surprised that more people didn't die or get hurt

The temple in Wisconsin, where a white supremacist shot 10 people, killing 6..


The Aurora shooting at the movie theater for the batman premiere...59 injured and 12 dead...the shooter survived and then his lawyer excuses his actions saying that he is mentally ill...excuse me, he seems smart enough to me to know what he was doing, he even told the cops he booby trapped his apartment...ooook and he is mentally ill!!

Today tragedy hits the country once again, the elementary school shooting in Connecticut, last time I watched the update there were 20 children dead and 8 adults...and they found a body at the house of the shooter...
I didn't even know them and when I heard the news I began to cry.  Children! I mean, come on! How can…

Mardi Gras Christmas

Every year is almost the same thing, balls, lights, xmas decor, etc...I wanted to go a different route.

2012 Christmas tree is a Mardi Gras theme, I have lights and bead necklaces adorning it, I was going to make some tiny masks but that was not too Christmas like, so I left it like that.

Many compliments, good and bad, LOL, but it is fun!
I make people stand next to it, flash their tits (men and women) and then they can take a necklace *grins* of course i have more to replace them.
Funny because now my kids are doing the same thing to other people and their friends when they come in...

I just wanted something different this year, I wanted to get a bit creative and make it fun...and it has worked out

Sincerely Yours

TMI Tuesday ~ 'Tis the Season ~

1.  During the December holiday Christmas season, Do you a.  Go away to join other family? b.  Have Christmas fun with immediate family? c.  Get to be alone with a lover? d.  Enjoy the peace and quiet and down-time of being with yourself?
We all get together the night before Christmas for a big feast, party, dancing, drinking...and Christmas day everyone at their house opening gifts, getting some well needed rest, probably recuperating from the fun I do wish to take my three kids one day and just go on a vacation!! mmmmmmmmmmm
2.  What is your favorite Christmas tradition or thing that you like to do every season?
We really don't have any traditions, just Christmas eve at my sisters house and opening gifts at midnight!
3.  You are walking down the street and a sexy person is standing with a sign that says "kiss me" and mistletoe hanging above their head. 1.  Would you kiss that person?  YES or NO 2.  Why or Why Not?
First I would make sure his breath is on po…

Lately in Aluvs' life...

I have been feeling under the weather.

More lost in my thoughts than anywhere else.

It is not easy re-evaluating ourselves, specially when feeling lost.  Procrastination is up at its fullest!! hehehe

I was a couch potato through the weekend.
Yesterday I spent the day laying on the couch watching TV and napping, from time to time I would look out the window and shiver cause it was freezing out.  I did put my tree up which is looking so cute, was not much into the Christmas spirit but that is changing, making sure I am listening to my Pandora Christmas radio stations to get in the mood and is working!!!

One thing I am proud of is that I am dressing up to go to work every single day just to up the mood!
I don't want to reflect how lonely and sad I have been feeling.

Meditation is up a big notch, although I am not quite myself just yet, I feel at peace, at ease, I am not angry, and I really believe meditation is a huge part of it...but there is more I want to do, I just need to get g…

Thursday Inspiration

There are those among us who are blessed with the power to save what is loved by another but powerless to use this blessing for love themselves
"Try sleeping with a broken heart" ~Alicia Keys~

Sincerely Yours Aluv

WoW Day ~Welcome to December~

"Learn from yesterday, Live for today, Hope for tomorrow"

Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday ~Fantasy Anyone?~

Thank you to Swinging Gemma for this week's TMI Tuesday Questions.

1.  Do you think that acting out a fantasy can sometimes cause damage to a relationship?

Depending on the fantasy.
if the fantasy includes deceiving, cheating, and lies, you bet it would!!

2.  Some couples role-play their fantasies rather than introducing another person into the relationship to live out their fantasies.  Do you think that this is an acceptable substitute?

To some it may not be and also there are couples that have an open relationship, or enjoy a threesome...
Me?  I am not the sharing type...sorry, I am greedy!

3.  Is there a particular movie or TV serious or character from a movie or TV serious that you fantasize about?

Pfffft, easy enough!!
Jack Sparrow!!
dirty, drunk, pirate!!

oh and I had a thing for Jack Tripper in the 80's (Three's Company)

4.  Apart from the obvious things like child abuse, are there some things that are "off limits" for a fantasy, e.g. incest fantasies, age play, r…