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TMI Tuesday ~Gettin Off~

This week's TMI Tuesday Questions are about gettin' off.

When you need it, you just gotta get it anyways you can. (For those who are innocent babies "IT" is sex)

1.  Have you ever initiated a booty call?

I have but unfortunately never went through with it!  I know, I have a huge problem having sex with someone i am not in a relationship with...
I am such a lame ass!!!

2.  Have you ever accepted a booty call?

I have but never went through with it!  back to question #1 

3.  Ever had a "friend with benefits" relationship?  How long did it last?  Are you still friends or acquaintances with that person?  Are you still having sex with that friend?

no FWB this way, but i did have a one night night stand with a friend.  We are still friends til now, we never ever bring that was a quickie too! OMG, I don't even like thinking of that moment! soo embarrassing!!

4.  Tell us about your best one-night stand, what made it so good?

*frowns* you know, going over th…

Update on the Car condition!!

Back in January I wrote a post about a friend of mine disappearing with my mothers' car.

I am happy to announce that the case was solved and dismissed.

He paid for the vehicle, since it was never found, and done!!

Don't have to deal with him or with mom.  I paid her for the vehicle back in February so I wouldn't have to listen any more crap about the darn car, but she never let it go.  Hopefully now that the case is dismissed she will dismiss it as well!

Happy Happy, Joy Joy

have a great Monday!! Sincerely Aluv

Weekend was Awesome

I like to keep myself busy, although I do more planning than the actual plans itself *grins* but lately I have been doing exactly what I have been saying I am going to do.
My sons' first football game was Saturday :) I am such a proud mommy!!  I love the fact he is into sports, other than boxing and skateboarding of course.  He looked so cute with his gear on, can't wait til he gets to the NFL...Hey!! a mom can dream :)

Saturday was all about him, first thing in the morning was the game, we were there from 10:30am - 2:00pm, it was fun to watch them play, I had my eyes on #35, I swear I was going to go across that field and whack him!! grrrrr I never watched him do boxing, cause I know how I am, and seen someone else hitting my kid is just too much for me, I don't care if its for the love of the game, but also some kids play dirty *frowns* and those are the ones I want to body slam!! I already warned the coach about it, he said not to worry that they will tie me up to keep me un…

TMI Tuesday ~Pain & Pleasure~

This week's TMI question come from Bi and Bi
1.  Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure? well, pleasure of course :) 2.  Do you like been tickled during sex?  Where? not at all, would not be able to concentrate, i am very ticklish..hehehee *laughing just thinking about it already* 3.  Have you ever used feathers during sex? not yet, but it is a great idea to incorporate them one day..don't know if i will be able to handle it. 4.  Do you like to be blindfolded during sex?  why? I haven't but would like to be, i like the unknown...wondering, what will he do next? 5.  Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play?  What provided the cold or heat? never have...making me think here!!    6.  Do you enjoy been spanked, spanking, or both?     that is one of my fantasies, to get spanked :)))) 7.  Do you have a safeword?  have you ever used it? I don't but i heard of a good one on twitter the other day *letsgetmarried*

Working in Hell & protecting myself

I meditate at least 5-6 times a week.

I use different things when I do so, water, my plant "Bella", sometimes candles, and sometimes incense, and I also have Crystals.

My poor crystals went through a lot! my snowflake obsidian, pffft, I lost that thing more than anything, I kept finding it, but it also kept going missing...some I dropped in someones car, I picked them up and put them back in the pouch and then my purse, but it happened a few times, and in the same car!

I started to do research about it.  It is says when a stone/crystal goes missing, forget about it, replace it, it served its purpose.  Same thing if they fall in someones house, vehicle, etc., leave them there, is because they need them more (at least is what I read)

I was not aware that they can be cleansed instead of replaced, either the sunlight or moonlight and of course other methods like sea salt, I don't know, the sunlight and moonlight seems more natural to me.
Anywho...I just decided to start cle…

Recently in Aluvs' Land

Nothing hot to report!
really, when will my life get a bit exiting here! Is not like I don't want to do things, I just need new people to do it with.
Although I have a few friends we are all so different, we all like doing different things, we are all unique in our own way.
When I try to do things on my own, make plans and such, there is always one person who wants to trips never work out the way I planned and I don't enjoy it as much as I thought I would or should have.  So I try to keep any plans I have private and it works out best...not that I've had many outings since I made that decision o.O

I really like the fact my blog is completely away from everyone I know, my own personal and private world that I only share with my people here and of course Him.

Not much is going on in my life, I've been having a great time on my own most of the time, seems like every time I am around certain people their bad vibe just rubs off! yikes!!

I did try the dating scene aga…

TMI Tuesday ~Any Regrets?~

Thank you to 'Rants from Erotic Rogue' for this week's TMI Tuesday.

Any Regrets?

"Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable"

Looking back on our lives, we can have a mix of reactions to the things we've done.  When it comes to sex, our memories can color us with pride, fondness, nostalgia, indifference, or all too often, regret.
This week's TMI Tuesday questions delve into things that people typically regret later in life.  How much do you regret, if at all, any of the following?
1.  Do you regret how you "lost your virginity?  If yes, why and to whom would you have preferred to have lost it?
yes, i do!
i lost it to my daughters' father, unfortunately i was too young...we were too young and both virgins, neither one of us knew what we were doing...I always wanted to wait...but rushed it...oh well...

2.  Have you ever lived a moment in your life where you said "Yeah, I'm n…

50 Shades darker ~2nd Book~ my review

a real good one!!!

If i would have just read book one without reading the rest of them I would not have enjoyed as much...

In book two there is tons of sex going on! every two or three pages there is a sex scene and of course a wet Aluv to follow *grins*
Geez those two can get it on.

in 50 Shades darker we find out who introduced Grey to the lifestyle, we learn more about her, who she is, how she more or less helped Grey with his troubled youth.
Why he does not like to be touched - i feel so bad for the poor guy, eeeek, and dealing with getting touched, overcoming those issues.

I hear everyone commenting and complaining about how this book has nothing to do with the lifestyle and how it gets it wrong...
ehrrr....yeah, this is a love story people!! not a how to BDSM book or a BDSM for dummies guide, so i really don't get it when people start bashing the book because it is not meeting the lifestyle standard people expect...

Grey is a sadist who has a playroom and makes contracts wi…

TMI Tuesday ~What's the Question?~

We have provided the answer, now you provide the question.  For example:
Answer (given): 28 marbles.  Question (you the blogger create):  How many did she fit in her vagina?

1.  Answer:  My butt. **If you can improve anything about your body, what will it be?
2.  Answer:  stiletto black leather pumps  **Is there anything special you would like to wear next time you have sex? 
3.  Answer:  hard and stiff  **How do you like your cock? **grins ever so wide
4.  Answer:  "By George I think he's got it!" **What were you thinking about the first time you were having sex?
5.  Answer:  socks  **is there an item of clothing you do not like your man/woman wearing while having sex? 
6.  Answer:  hole in the wall  **Where did you tell your x-husband to shove his cock when he made a pass at you?

Answer:  I hid them there so you wouldn't find them.  **Mom!! the candies and cupcakes in this suitcase are like 2 years old!!! o.O (True story!! mami used to hide cupcakes i would buy, cooki…

50 Shades of Grey - my book review

I feel as I am about to write a book report!!

aside from the fact that my breathing get heavier, i feel a certain sensation down under and of course wet by the time i put the book was a cool read!  and a chic book indeed.

men should read it so they can actually get an idea of how women think...SOMETIMES, cause that Anastasia pissed me off through the entire some ways.

I loved me some Christian Grey, i will take him not only with 100 shades but with the entire rainbow!!
I know is only a book but the way he treats her and feels about her...what wouldn't i give to feel at least 1/4 of that!!
I think Anastasia is very unappreciative (in book 1 by far)...
She keeps saying that he is fucked up, and the way he is, and all she does is complain about this and that...and even when she says thank you she still has a "but" in there somewhere *chokes her*...perhaps if he was an asshole, didn't really give a crap, just get together with her for a scene, and ge…

Update Resolutions ~July~

Hot July!!
the month was great! many accomplishments and, alive!!

**You lose balance, You lose power**
1. Get fit - make and exercise plan and a meal plan and stick to it!!
Had the colonic and feeling much better! Problem solved
I have been very active and the eating healthier :)

2. Budget! Budget! Budget!
there are times that is hard to stay on track when things happen suddenly :-/

3. GET ON THE ROAD - Register my vehicle!DONE

4. Become a US citizen...yaaayyy - in the process!!
September of 2012 sending in the application!!! yaaaay

5. Organize myself and keep up!
Done! although Laundry is the one thing I can't keep up with, as long as I have clean clothes and options, I keep going!! (i find no reason to change this one...Laundry still an issue for me!)
This part has not changed :)

7. Sit down on a weekly basis and review my goals, accomplishments, where I went wrong, what needs readjustment/improvement.
I am not doing it weekly but bi-weekly, i have done so well keeping track …