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A very valuable lesson

A well-known speaker started off his seminar holding up a $20 bill.
In the room of 200, he asked,
"who would like this $20 bill?"
Hands started going up.
He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this."
He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill.  He then asked, "who still wants it...?"
Still the hands were up in the air.
"well" he replied, "what if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.
He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty.
"Now, who still wants it?
Still the hands went into the air.
"My friends, we have all learned a very valuable lesson.  No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value.  It was still worth $20.  Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way.  Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely …

My Friday Quote!!!

Wise Words

Sincerely Yours

I can't believe I went there!!

As I sat on my bed through the night...
yes, one of those nights you can't sleep...

While I waited to get sleepy I did some meditation, chanting, trying to figure out my feelings, emotions, and decisions I must take...

I quit smoking April 12th, 2008...and two weeks ago I grabbed one and smoked for the first time in almost 5 years, to say the least I called my Dr and back on the Chantyx, which is the reason why I could not sleep, those pills give me nightmares or vivid dreams if, and when I fall asleep, but I have been craving the cigs here and there and I really don't want to go there again!!

Something I know I have is a strong will and determination...I know I will get through this...but I can't believe I weakened to that point, that I was so stressed, or down that I went to the point of grabbing a cigarette after so long, why a cigarette and not a joint?  geeez!!!

Another thing that has been on my mind:

I am giving up dating all together...

Giving myself a while to get …

WoW Day ~Healing Process~

It takes time...

But I will get there...
"In too deep, can't think about giving it up
But I never knew love would feel like a heart attack
It's killing me, swear I never cried so much
Cause I never knew love would hurt this fucking bad
The worst pain that I ever had"
"Trey Songz"
Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday ~Famous or Forgotten~

Thanks to an anonymous TMI Tuesday blog lurker for this week’s questions…Famous or Forgotten For each question answered, an accompanying story would be entertaining. Delight us! 1. Have you ever had sex with someone famous or who later became famous, if only locally? I WISH! I HAVEN'T CROSSED PATH WITH JOHNNY DEPP...YET!! 2. In the spirit of Six Degrees of Separation, have you had sex with someone who had sex with someone who had sex with someone who . . . someone famous? HAHAHA!! NO....THEY ALSO WISH!! 3. In the opposite direction, have you had sex with someone whose name you didn’t know? THAT HASN'T HAPPENED TO ME YET...BUT I AM STILL YOUNG AND HOPING FOR THAT NAMELESS ONE NIGHT STAND *GRINS* 4. Someone whose name you knew then but have forgotten? I DON'T FORGET A NAME OR A FACE! 5. Someone who you suspect may have forgotten you? OH! THIS IS AN EASY ONE...THE ONE AND ONLY C.A.B OR AS I USED TO CALL HIM "MASTER"   **after the breakup, he says he would like to stay in…

Monday Morning Quote

"Faith makes things possible,
Love makes them easier"

Sincerely Yours Aluv

After the date

I know, the smile is a good sign!

I found him attractive, hope the feeling was mutual..

There was great conversations, we shared laughs, I was a wreck, but wanted to play it cool...had me blushing a few times...quite a few times :) but it was all good!!


Hope he didn't notice that.

Very different from other dates I had.  I actually wanted a second date!

Anyways...end of the night, walks me to my car, goes in for the kiss, I froze!! I kissed him back, but not like I wanted to!

On my way home I was very hard with myself, wanted to kick my own ass, why didn't I just devour him like I pictured while we were talking.

At one point of the date I just wanted to reach over and kiss him, but when actually confronted with it I just go duh!!


I got no game! Not even after reading that book last month, shame! I am just shame!!

Oh, and certain things he said...lets just say my mind is going wild, such dirty and naughty thoughts!!!

Sincerely Yours

Sent from m…

Going on a date

I am nervous as hell!!

Is not like I have luck meeting guys, at least chemistry wise, and usually that is what first dates are for...

Did we hit it off?

Was there chemistry?

Was there attraction?

Did the  interaction went well?

Was there enough conversation?

Where there quiet times,  unusual, feeling uncomfortable situations?

Will there be a second date?


Is a killer!!

Sincerely Yours

Sent from my Windows Phone

A different kind of thanksgiving

((hope this goes well, writing from my phone))

Give a Latino/Spanish person a reason to party and we take it to the next level!

While most people have already eaten by 6 pm the latest, by that time we are either still doing the last preparations for the feast, or getting ready, we dress up to the max, I think we exaggerate, just a bit..

Our time to eat is usually 8 pm...late enough for people to arrive.
I don't know if you ever heard the term American time or Spanish see, you tell an American party starts at 6 people are already there by want us to get there at 6, you have to tell us is by 4...i don't know why, but we are wired like that...although in this country we learn that late is not a good thing, and some of us adapt while others struggle with it.  That does not apply to our family functions, EVER! but we respect the elders and we know when they say 8 they mean 8!

Rice with beans, white rice, turkey, 2 pork shoulders, macaroni salad with ham and…

WoW Day ~a little stretch....~

......can sometimes go a long way...

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday ~Movember Week 3~

TMI Tuesday: November 20, 2012 Posted onNovember 19, 2012by

1. When is the last time you or your loved one had their prostate checked?
I have no grandfather died of prostate cancer in 2004
2. Besides a medical professional, how many other people have had their finger up your ass?
none, not even a doctor yet
3. Have you ever given or received a prostate massage? Did you like it? Did you cum or orgasm?
yes I did, to my x-husband, did he cum? all over my mouth!!
4. Do you enjoy anal play–rimming, fingering, penetration, etc.?

We only did it once to experiment, never tried it again, i never let him go behind me...didn't think he deserved the special jewel!!
5. Ever had anal sex? A. No, and I don’t want to. B. No, but I am dying to try it. C. Yes, but it is just okay. D. Yes, love it…can’t get enough of it. E. That’s the way I like it. Anal sex is the best sex.

6. You are about to have anal sex, which method would you choose (You must choose one.): A. Finger up the …

Quote for Monday Morning

One of my old time favorite, my icon...and role wish I could be like her at times...

"I'm selfish, impatient a little insecure. I make mistakes, I'm out of control and times times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, the you sure as hell don't deserve at my best" 'Marilyn Monroe' Sincerely Yours Aluv

Quote of the day...In the End...

"In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take, the relationship we are afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make."

Sincerely Yours Aluv

Quote of the day

"One day you are going to wake up and realize just how much you cared, and when that day comes, I'll be waking up with someone that already knew"

Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday ~Support Movember~

**a copy and paste to support "MOVEMBER" Next week is our last set of TMI Tuesday Movember questions but I want to give you time to do the bonus question so I am posting that now. Next TMI Tuesday–November 20, I want to see your Mo’s. If you are growing a moustache show us, post a photo to your blog along with next Tuesday’s TMI Tuesday questions. Don’t have a blog? Post a link to your ‘stache pic on the TMI Tuesday blog, in the comments section. Don’t think because you are a girl you can’t show your Mo’ . Several Mo’ Sistas have already showed us their ‘stache: Don’t forget the goodies for sexy fun. Check out the #Movember365 discount at Sex Shop 365: enter Movember awareness month with Sex Shop 365.
Use code: MOV20 to get 20% off all prostate massagers this November. TMI Tuesday questions for November 20 will be posted on Monday, November 19, 2012. ——————- Consider Donating to Prostate Cancer Research

Dressing up

......Makes a huge difference.

spirit lifted, my sadness hiding behind what everyone keep saying WOW to!

Today is going to be a better day :)

Happy Thirsty Thursday to tons of you who take this day to go out and drink!

Thank you for all my wonderful friends, and their support!!
Bloggers and Non-Bloggers!!

Sincerely Yours

How ya'doing?

Is a question I am hearing all day long.

I am not doing well quite frankly.  A break up is something that it takes time to get over specially when so much was shared.

We were together for 3 years, so we did have a history together.

I try to dress up every single day to motivate myself, make up and all...for the past two days I am rocking a ponytail since the weather sucks and not even wasting my time blow-drying the hair, it will be a waste of time.

I still haven't had any type of contact with me, I want to write, but I am holding myself back from doing so!  Giving each other space, more like, giving him his space.

When the pain is less maybe I will build enough courage to say hello.  We did end things in amicable ways, and also talked about in staying in touch from time to time, but at the moment the wounds are too fresh and the pain greater than I thought it would be.

I am moping around

I try to look happy around everyone so they will not notice how I am feeling...

WoW Day - Mending a heart!

...and waiting for cupid...
Making sure my heart is exposed so when he throws that arrow it goes directly in it!
Taking one day at a time...
Happy WoW Day

Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday ~Movember week 2~

Hello my fellow TMI Tuesday junkies. Movember is in full-swing.
I can’t wait to see those Mo’s a little later in the month.
In the meantime here is a set of VERY fine TMI Tuesday questions from longtime blogger and frequent TMI Tuesday question contributor

If you don’t know what Movember is all about see previous TMI Tuesday posts or click here.

Some men who have been treated for Prostate Cancer are unable to get an erection.

1. If they were treated with surgery, the usual reason is nerve damage. They may have success with a penis pump.

Question: Have you (or your partner) ever used a pump? Did it work? Was it a turn-on or a turn-off?


2. If they were treated with radiation, the usual reason is damage to blood vessels. They may have good luck with Viagra or or one of the other impotence meds.

Question: Have you (or your partner) ever used Viagra, Cialis, or similar? Did it work? Any interesting side effects? Any 4-hour erections? Tell us how you ma…

How to lose a girl in less than a week

Even though I am not a serious dater I have been in a few dates (3-4 this year), but I have friends who are out there in the dating scene...

Understandable that there must be chemistry when meeting someone, there has to be that click, that comfortable feeling...I began to think about what it is about this guys that turn me off so quickly, one date and before it is over I am just hoping they feel the same way about me. 
Seems like I am not the only one who feels this way, at work everyone is fishing "POF'ing), so you can imagine I have friends who go on dates almost every day of the week!  and the horror stories, lol, that's the fun part :)

I am sure men have their own list, which would be very funny to actually compare with the one I am about to make.

This list was put together by 8 special ladies in my circle of friends and of course moi :)

1.  Don't wear sandals with socks - It is already a no-no in the style community as is for us girls (sandals with socks or with …

Quote of the Day

"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.-"
'Joseph Campbell'

Venting...a bit

I am still broken and very numb about the fact that things ended between him and I...but I keep telling myself that it had to happen, it was the right thing to do.

I am sad, hurt, but it is only normal to feel this way.  No matter how I see it, a loss is a loss.

I am grateful to have met him, the opportunity to have shared those wonderful moments with him

Taking it as a wonderful experience, I never in a million years thought I was going to travel to the other side of the world, not once but twice!! and that was an incredible experience.  I know for a fact that if I would not have met him I would have never traveled to the Netherlands...He gave me the courage to stand up to something, not to be afraid, to be adventurous.

I am not angry which is something we all experience when going through a breakup, but I am at ease, at peace, I am so thankful for meditation, it helps so much to balance my emotions.

Been up since 3am...

I decided to dress up and I look fabulous!!
Everyone is asking …

Love our Lurkers 7

Friday November 9th, 2012 is LOL Day "Love Our Lurkers" Day!

Everyone is welcome to participate but the people that are hoped to be heard from are our beloved lurkers.

Lurker:  A regular reader who doesn't comment, goes anonymous...

On LOL Day, many Bloggers will publish posts where the lurkers are invited to make a least a "hi" or "passing through"

If you want more information check out MBS Blogspot, all the information needed is there!

I was a lurker before I started blogging :)

Still a lurker, I'm like the wind in the!!

If you can please pass this date to other readers such as spanking, DD, or Ds bloggers will be greatly appreciated!

Oh and MBS has cool logos you can choose from too :)

Sincerely Yours

WoW Day ~Sweet November~

Last year I posted a WoW Day pic every Wednesday from November of 2011 - March 2012.

I guess is that time of the year again!!

First Wednesday of the month :)

Have a great WOW Day!!!

Sincerely Yours

What is "Cock Worship?"

A man found this in a profile in CM and sent it to me...

I loved it so much that I want it to post it here :)

What is cock Worship???
Quite simply it is a way more then just a blow job.  It is NOT about getting a Dom's cock hard, or even making the cock release...(but is very much treasured and loved when it does).  It is about Love & Devotion to the cock in a very admirable way.

To love and worship a man's cock & balls, through literally loving, tasting, smelling, to loving and needing to caress, lick, suck, nurse the cock, look at the cock admirably and touch the cock in a way to show our love, respect and lust for the cock.  It is something that not only gives us such pleasure to serve the cock but it clearly so important to our man who will allow us to pleasure of it and takes us where we need to be with it.

Cock worshiping is attaching your sluthood to your other.  It is declaring your lust for your Dom sexually by pointing out that their cock and balls are to be g…

Things ended, moving forward

I am fine.

I am doing well...

Master and I decided that the distance and having no time to spend together it is best that we remain...friends and stay in touch with each other.

No doubt there is love between us, but in the past year we have grown apart.

I am not hurting for we both understand the reasons for the decision...and I am totally fine with it.

He wants me to find someone that will be able to be there for me when I need him and take proper care of me, something that he can't do because of how far apart we are.

I feel better and more free to date now that I know I have been "released"...I have gone out on several dates (one timers) but just a few days ago I met someone whom I call "Papa Bear"
...I like him :) first guy I meet since Master that I feel I have a connection with, we laugh a lot together, we enjoy each others company...still I am a bit off about it, I don't think he is into me as much as I am into him...but hey, I am just assuming here..…

From the book "Conversations with God"

At home level you have all created that which you say you detest--and, having created it, you have chosen it.

     This is an advanced level of thinking, and it is one which all Masers reach sooner or later.  For it is only when they can accept responsibility for all of it that they can achieve the power to change part of it.

     So long as you entertain the notion that there is something or someone else out there "doing it" to you, you disempower yourself to do anything about it.  Only when you say "I did this" can you find the power to change it.

It is much easier to change what you are doing than to change what another is doing.

     The first step in changing anything is to know and accept that you have chosen it to be what it is.  If you can't accept this on a personal level, agree to it through your understanding that We are all One.  Seek then to create change not because a thing is wrong, but because it no longer makes an accurate statement of Who…

TMI Tuesday ~ Mustache Theme "Movember"~

During November each year, Movember is responsible for the sprouting of mustaches on thousands of men's faces around the world.  With their Mo's, these men raise vital awareness and funds for men's health issues, specifically prostate and testicular cancer initiatives.
Please participate in TMI Tuesday the next three Tuesdays Nov 6, 13 and 20to help us raise awareness about prostate cancer.  Come get anal as the questions will be prostate related 
Grab the TMI Tuesday button for Movember and display it with your TMI Tuesday post or for the entire month of November.
This week the questions, from, have a mustache theme and a request for you to join in, even if it's just a little self checking.
1.  Ladies...Have you ever kissed a man with a mustache? Gentlemen...Have you ever had a mustache?
YES...just recently :) Papa Bear have a mustache :))))

2.  The say "putting on the bearded' m…

DayLight Saving Time & more

Friday was an excellent night!
although a valuable lesson was learned...always stick to your guns (in this case my guns), when feeling vulnerable turn off the phone and stay away from guys!!

Vulnerability = weakness regrets!

Today has been the longest day!

Daylight saving time...back one hour, and I don't know if anyone is having the same effect but i feel that I have been up for days!! what a long day it has been!

I have tried to keep busy, but little things just lingering in my

Didn't feel like doing a thing, and that is exactly what i did...NOTHING! and there is much to do *looks around*
oh boy...
to play catch up tomorrow.
That is something I am always happy about, there is always tomorrow :)

Tomorrow a new week begins, hoping it starts better than it ended *slumps and shrugs*

well...just waiting for the Walking Dead and the darn clock keeps moving backward **ugh** will this day ever end??

Do hope everyone enjoyed their weeken…