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Definition of Catfish (Urban) Is someone who pretends to be someone they're not using facebook or other social media to create false identities, particularly to pursue deceptive online romances.

That was the definition I found online but it is more than that.

There are people who will also pretend to be someone else to drive other people insane, to blackmail, to stress them out, for revenge, and who knows for what other reasons.

I have never met a guy online who is not who he said he was, not that I have met many, but at least the ones I have met.
My Dutch was everything he said and more *grins wide*
He was the only one I have met that I've had a relationship with, the other two I met by fate, not saying that Dutchie was not fate, but we met in different circumstances (I still think we are - I know, I know!! I have to give it up, move on, and I am in my own way, is just hard to forget someone who I loved so much)

...but anyways...

My friend is going through a sit…

In need of down time

I have been on the go since I woke up.

To say the least I woke up late, bed was just so cozy, even though I was wrapped like a burrito I could tell the room was cold and there was no way, no how I was going to leave the warmth of my bed and comforter.
Time was flying, faster than usual...I remember the days I would lay in bed for about 20 minutes each morning just thinking about him and...of our love :) time spent together *sighs* how great we are together, alike...oh dang


There was no time to meditate, I pulled the covers to the side, shit, I was right, the room was freezing, I made a run to the bathroom...

To make a long story short, I was ready and out the door on time but we had some snow last night and it made the roads slippery this morning...yes, once again people forget they live in New England and with it they forget how to drive.  I was on time dropping off my son to school but I was late to work.

Work felt like a Monday, so much to do and limited tim…

WoW Day ~Cold Days~

It has been extremely cold out there, and with it, the high beams!!! Sometimes they get so hard it hurts!

Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday ~Describe it~

1.  Describe your or a lover's penis with a movie title
K-19: The Widowmaker  *grins* he is...yeah, great size (coughs)

2.  Describe your pussy or a lover's pussy with a movie title
The Land That Time Forgot (1977) *sighs*

3.  Describe your last sexual encounter with a song title
"Take My Breath Away"

4.  Describe your body with a song title
"I'm Every Woman "

5.  Describe your sexual appetite with a book, song, or a movie title.
"Hungry like the wolf"

Bonus:  Recommend your favorite sexy, sensual or kink oriented book
my first kink book was The Story of O... I enjoyed it very much not many feel the same way.

Happy TMI!!


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we'll all know where to read your responses.
Please don't forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!


Week 4

They are going by fast

4 down, 48 more to go!

Great week!

Dressed up every single day, except Friday, I dressed a bit more casual than usual.
Light make-up
looking flawless and proud

Eating and exercise
OMG! Brother taking us out to eat and when we are not out at a restaurant mom is cooking away.
Moving around tons, from one house to another.  I am never home after work unless my mom drops by to cook.
I miss my quiet days.


working on it and getting better :)

Not enough time to be online this days, extremely busy with family and actually trying to find a way to go around that.

Went to see about new gadgets
Nexus 4 for cellphone
and a Nexus 10 tablet to keep blogger and everything else at hand.
I was told to go iPhone, but nah, I enjoy Windows phone but want to go with something different this time around, maybe next time I will try the iPhone, for now I want to give Google a chance and see what it can do.

Had a date last n…


I've learned that...  things change,  people change, and it doesn't mean you forget the past or try to cover it up it simply means that you move on and treasure the memories
Letting go doesn't mean giving up... it means accepting that some things weren't mean to be.

Sincerely Yours Aluv

Baby its cold outside.

By the time I wake up tomorrow morning temperature will be 0 degrees Fahrenheit, crazy!

The last time I can recall having temperatures like this was in January 2004...we've had some serious snow storms since then but this cold is crazy!

I have been in the New England area since the early 80's and I still can't get used to this cold. 
Call me a masochist, I love the state I live in, I am not fond of the winters but I love it here!

Layers, tonight is about layers...
Heat cranked up! Pants, shirt, scarf, sweater, and socks.  All bundled up!


I can't remember the last time i slept with clothes on, it is very uncomfortable, i have a feeling is going to be a long sleepless night.

Stay warm everyone who is going through this cold...would be so nice to have a warm body next to mine *sighs* shit, who am i kidding! I'd still be cold!!

Man, i belong on a tropical island, I'm Dominican, i don't function well in the cold! I go duh! Huh? in this type of weather.

WoW Day ~in his arms~


that was just an exquisite day

Sincerely Yours

TMI Tuesday ~Complete the Sentence~

Thank you Anonymous and Lurker!!
I love me some lurkers hehe, I am one too *grins*

Complete each sentence with an anecdote of sexual adventure or misadventure:

1.  The first time I...

had sex was March 24th, 1989

2.  The last time I...

can recall having some good, passionate, love making session was April 20, 2011

3.  The only time I...

am able to fall asleep as of lately is when I play with myself, tires me out and I fall asleep faster, if it doesn't work, I repeat the process all over again

4.  My best...

sexual encounter so far was between August 11, 2010 - August 17, 2011 *grins*
OMG!  that was so good!
that was my time with Dutch...we humped like wabbits!! haha 3-4 hours straight, non-stop cummin, love making, kissing...lets just say it was great!!

5.  My worst...

moment having sex was with my X-husband.
we had an iron bed, I decided to put my feet all the way back and tangle them around the rods...I got stuck, the more i screamed from the pain the harder he banged me, he actually th…

Week 3

a day late...

Goals were met but I was very easy on myself.
Eating moderately, keep up with less carbs (haa!!! I sucked at this one)
Prep my clothes before I go to bed (yes)
Hair, make up every day (yes)
Write down my to do for work and DO! (yes)
Appts for son and I (re-scheduled, one of them is done, next week is mine)
My 365 pic (I think I forgot 1...dang)
Keep up with activities "moving a lot, dancing, just keep moving" (I could have done better)

Other things

Mom and Brother are with the option to stay o.O
Spending quality time with my bro.  My schedule is off, I don't have time to log in, write, sit down for a long period of time.  When together my mom makes all of us put the phone away, that is nuts!  We all go nuts!
Mom!! we can multi-task you know...

Snow storm mid-week, did not go to work and had to cancel both appointments I had for that morning...

Ate like there was no tomorrow and feeling as if my accomplishments for the last few weeks just van…

A long, busy week

I am exhausted!
Can't get enough of my bed in the morning.
It has been a long week and dreading the next two weeks that are coming.  
I love to spend time with my family, specially when we are all together, but at the same time I like my privacy, I like time alone, ME time, and that is something I know I will not be getting for now, and/or probably for a while since my mother is back.
Brother is back in the US from Germany and will be stationed somewhere in California.  ROAD TRIP (for the near future, oh and really didn't mean road trip...that will be a long trip, from one end of the US to the other, pfffft, that's my entire vacation!)
We are making tons of plans, do something different every day and get away in the weekends.  We want to make sure our brother enjoys his time here, we don't get to see him as often as we would like, or spend time with him the way we want to, so when we get to be with him we spoil him rotten, we go to bed late, cooking, playing games, go…

TMI Tuesday ~Your ought to be in pictures~

A bunch of celebrity sex tapes have been made public through fair means or foul.  Have you seen any of these?  which ones?

Pamela Anderson and Bret Michaels - really? they had a sex tape? must look for that.

Paris Hilton and Rick Solomon - of course I've seen it, I needed to see what Paris Hilton looks like doing the act!

Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee - I did!! woweee, man has a weapon, I think, that is my opinion...

Kim Kardashian and Ray-J - I did and never looked at him the same way, that's Brandy's lil'brother...i can't get over that

Kendra Wilkinson and Justin Frye - didn't bother, I used to watch girls next door back in the days...nuff said

Today's TMI Tuesday topic is sex photography and video.

1.  Did you ever pose for pictures in sexual situations, or take pictures of a lover?

Pose but taken the pics myself and then sent them *blushes* 
I have taken pics of a lover as well *sighs* not his private or completely naked, but as we were laying in b…

Week 2 "Goals"

What a week!!!

I am almost done with my goals, but I still have a few hours left.

Medidate 5-7 days - I meditated 5 days only, I was sick, son was just been awful with the flu

Dress up every single day and fix hair - Done!! and yes, even when sick I still looked great!

Update blogs SL/RL if there is updating to be done - hehe, my SL has been a bit busy, still trying to get in the swing of things, meeting new people, making little changes here and there...same with this blog, my TMI and my WoW day pics are still up to date.

Keep house organized - Done! this has been an easy one, putting things where they belong, make sure dishes are cleaned after use, etc...13 days into New Years and I can't say that I have been going nuts because I have to clean, or my room is messy, or dishes need to get done...things are just done!!

Cook every day, bring lunch for work - Done! Saving money of course and eating much healthier, trying to keep up with the weight loss...hehe, pictures will be co…

Bad Bad GERMS ~flu season~

A bad flu season this year.

Massachusetts so far have 18 deaths because of it, everyone is sick all around, and we have 6 more weeks to go.

I called to make an appointment to take my son in and they are rearranging the schedule for tomorrow because they are overbooked, emergency rooms are filled with sick people, and they called a state of emergency here..yikes!

All three of my kids are sick, and I mean, really really sick!
My son is been having a fever on and off all week, my oldest had a stomach virus which is also going around, and the cold to go with it, middle child, poor baby :( , is worse on her...the fluids going to her ear and she is already a bit deaf as is, about to get dates for surgery for her hearing and she has to wait til the cold is completely gone.

I can't believe among all this germs I was sick for about a week only, but I also have to say that when it happened I was on it!
My grandmother used to make us ginger tea...
Ginger root (smash it), 1/4 of a green lime…

WoW Day ~Snow~

The way a crow Shook down on me The dust of snow From a hemlock tree
Has given my heart  A change of mood And saved some part Of a day I rued
"Robert Frost"

Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday ~Rabbits~

way to go Late Phoenix!  wooohooo!! *grins*

1.  What feels better, the moment right before cumming, the moment of cumming, or the moment right after cumming?

all of the above!! all of them, how can I just pick one, that sensation I feel all over my body as I am about to cum, and as I cum, the panting and the shaking *shivers* and after it so weak and giggling and smiling
*sighs* so good to have sex with myself

2.  For the fellas:  It is said that guys will fuck anything that moves.  but what if you're a hippie who's in love with the wind, how would that relationship work out?

LMAO! so glad i am a lady right now *grins*

3.  For the ladies:  What would be your first gut reaction after he guy you're on a first date with after months of online chatting looks you straight in the eye and whispers to you even before saying hi, "lets fuck like rabbits..."?

I would slap him really hard and then ask him "Did you get a hotel room yet?"

4.  There can only be ONE!…

Time to rest & Quote!

...after a long day at work

multi-tasked around the house and computer

Time to put technology away


before I go...

Watch your thoughts; They become words.
Watch your words; They become actions.
Watch your actions; They become habits.
Watch your habits; They become character.
Watch your character; It becomes your destiny
"Lao Tzu"
**I am doing better, feeling better**
Sincerely Yours Aluv

Good Morning

Wishing everyone an amazing week ahead!

New week

New Possibilities

New Goals :)

Sincerely Yours

New England Leather Alliance


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Friday February 15th - Sunday February 17th!


You know where I am going!


oh and one of the events "The Gala" I am there!!

Already reserved my tickets for the show, just need to get the hotel room :)

Sincerely Yours

Week 1

Instead of making resolutions for the entire year this year I am making weekly goals. Some I will try to do weekly others will be just scratched out as I complete them, etc.
Week one was great!!
Everything I said I was going to do I did medidate - i write it down even though is a habit already as is I follow a menu I am taking a healthy lunch and things I need to consume through the day at work Keeping up with low carbs, had an off yesterday, and just going to be more strict today. Gym 3x a week Cook every single day Fix myself each and everyday, even if I am home, or going down the street to the store, always look my best (thanks mom!!)
I am feeling very happy this days, at peace, content, I can breath.
I added a page of pictures i took mostly every day in 2012 with a little caption on it...funny to look back and recap.  (the original says more intimate stuff, i had to actually cut some sentences out and do some readjustments..)
I am doing the same things this year *grins*
I know ev…

Bound to You

Not so long ago...

Sweet love, sweet love, trapped in your love I've opened up, unsure i can trust My heart and I were buried in dust Free me, free us
You're all I need when I'm holding you tight If you walk away I will suffer tonight
I found a man I can trust and boy, I believe in us I am terrified to love for the first time Can you see that I'm bound in chains? I've finally found my way
I am bound to you I am bound to you
So much, so young, I've faced on my own Walls I built up became my home I'm strong and I'm sure there's a fire in us Sweet love, so pure
I catch my breath with just one beating heart And I embrace myself, please don't tear this apart
I found a man I can trust and boy, I believe in us I am terrified to love for the first time Can you see that I'm bound in chains? I've finally found my way
I am bound to you I am bound to...
Suddenly the moment's here, I embrace my fears All that I have been carrying all these years …

WoW Day

"Love is not written on paper, for paper can be erased.  Nor is etched on stone, for stone can be broken.  But it is inscribed on a heart and there it shall remain forever"

"The heart is the only broken instrument that works"

"Today, see if you can stretch your heart and expand your love so that it touches not only those to whom you can give it easily, but also to those who need it so much"

Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday ~Sex Games People Play

1st TMI of the New Year! Last year I did not miss one, this year I am going to do the same and actually go as far as submitting my own questions... Questions submitted by Virtualsin :) Thank you

1.  Did you ever play strip poker (or strip-spin-the-bottle, or similar?  Did nudity result?  Were there further developments?  Details please.
I did strip poker at the age of 14, first and last was funny because been the youngest one in the group around my peers (High School friends) they didn't think I had the assets that I was a shock to them there was a hot body hidden under all those clothes.  and nothing to let to a thing, other than I became a bit popular among the guys. (no fucking involved, I've have always been hard giving up my cooch)
2.  Did you ever play a nude party game, such as Naked Twister?  Did it lead to anything further?
Unfortunately I have not, wish I did, I think it would be a fun thing to do...LOL
3.  Did you ever play a game of Truth or Dare …