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TMI Tuesday - Wrapping up 2014

Thank you to all who played, read, commented to TMI Tuesday this year. A BIG THANK YOU to those of you who submitted questions and ideas over the past year. And now for this TMI Tuesday, let’s wrap up 2014…1. It’s the end of 2014. How do you feel? Excited? Eager to see what’s in store for the new year?Ans: I am eager for this year to be over and start 2015, I have a few things up my sleeve, I have an amazing feeling about this new year.2. On a scale of 1-10 how satisfied were you with 2014? How satisfied were you with your sex life in 2014? (1 = completely disappointed, 10 = extremely satisfied)Ans: I'll give 2014 a 7, just because of how I feel about work.  0 for the sex cause I had none.3. What were your big accomplishments this year?Ans: 2 squirts, a move near the beach to another state, learned to make ssoap, getting in touch with parts on myself that I surely enjoy.4. Did you make new year’s resolutions at the beginning of year 2014? How many did you keep?I didn't make an…

TMI Tuesday - fill in the blanks!

Happy TMI Tuesday. Get creative–be funny, strange, sexy or whatever but fill-in those blanks below. 1. My best friend is...

Fun to be with, makes a shit load of plans and never goes through with it, daydreams just as much as I do and we share many, many things alike yet we are so different.

2. A kind lover is all I desire and deserve.

3. If you only know one thing about me it should be _____ .

That I'm always smiling and positive even when things are not well

4. Bacon is the best meat in the world.

5. A man and a dog  walk into a bar and the man gets kicked out cause there are no dogs allowed.

6. I like to eat pumpkin muffins in the fall.

Bonus:  I can’t blow dry my hair if it rains but I can always go curly! .

When one is brain dead trying to do this TMI can be such a challenge.


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your res…

Plans for this New Year

It has been a great year by far

Had my ups and downs but we all have those days.
Blogging is always strong at the beginning of the year then it slowly begins to fade.   Life has a way of getting busy, and I become a procrastinator, some things become more important that others, and once again life has a way of throwing curve balls at us.
There are some great plans ahead.. Quitting my job, after 15 years I am hanging the towel and saying goodbyeI have business plans on the works, I know I will be successful I just need to be persistent and with hard work I will be able to get where I want to beMy friend is opening up a restaurant which we will both manage and for sure that will be successfulI am leaving to see my Master in just 57 days - more to come on that :))))))))
And that is just some of the things I am working on at the moment.
Even though I don't do much blogging I am hoping to change that a bit, I say the same thing every year and I start strong with every resolution I make …

TMI Tuesday - Oh Behave!~

Oh Behave.

This week TMI Tuesday takes its cue from the world of psychology and sociology, which both deal with behavior.

1. Catharsis - What behavior or activity do you do to achieve catharsis.

Make jewelry
I am an open book, I can't really hide my emotions, something is bothering me and I let it out

2. Self-affirmations was made famous by Saturday Night Live character Stuart Smalley (now Senator Al Franken): “I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and gosh-darn it, people like me.” What self-affirmation do you say/or should you say to yourself?

I'm so good is what I say
I will prevail is what I should be saying 

3. “I knew it all along.” What did you know all along?

I  knew it all along that I was not going to retire from this job!

4. Daydreaming. About whom or what was your last daydream?

My friend is about to open a business which I keep rushing for her to do so I can quit this job even quicker..
this morning I had a Romy and Michelle high school reunion moment
"we …

Working on not Working


Is not going well at work, the more time I spend here the more impatient I get.
Stressed out to the max
Constant back pain, no matter how many massages I get, how many pills I have taken for it, meditation, stretching, yoga and now I am going to the gym a few times a week to see if exercise will help and still...NOTHING!
Went to a chiropractor and while working on my back he tells me that my muscles are all tight and I am very tense, NO SHIT SHERLOCK! why you think I came to see you?

I am at the end of my rope and looking for alternate things that I can do in order to quit this job.  I can't handle this situation any longer.

Feeling different this days, not the happy, energetic, loud person that I usually am.  People have noticed, I try to keep it on the DL (down low) but hey, it is me, I am not so great at hiding my emotions or even sugar coating how I feel about situations.
I am an open book and don't have issues telling people how I feel whether th…

TMI Tuesday - Travel

This time of year lots of people travel: Travel to family for the holidays, travel to warm places to escape winter weather and more. For this TMI Tuesday let’s talk travel…Travel1. My favorite travel companion is ______Myself2. I pass time on a plane by ______Watching movies, listening to music, reading or writing3. My favorite part of my travel routine is ______Planning and packing. 4. When you travel with a companion who is the primary planner for the trip itinerary? Who is the primary planner for the days during your trip/holiday?We both do it, we never really go with a plan, the only planning is the destination and the wardrobe, other than that is all about discovering, exploring, where the wind takes us.5. In 2014, how many times did you travel for leisure? For business?Once or twice for leisure6. In 2014, how many times did you travel more than 100 miles from home? How many times did you travel out of your county/state/region but remained in the same country?More than 100 miles …

TMI Tuesday - Relationship: Beginning, middle, and end

Relationships: beginning, middle, the end. 1. A sexy person you’ve been admiring says, “Let’s do something wild together.” What is the thing you pick to do?

I'd say take a road trip!

2. I saw this headline: Whip Your Vagina Into Shape. Sadly the subject matter wasn’t what I wanted. Anywho…which way would you prefer to whip your vagina into shape. (Fellas you can select your fave way you’d like to whip a pussy or see it whipped)

a. a nice, stingy pussy spanking by hand.
b. doing kegel exercises with kegel balls.
c. having some SM master/mistress actually whip your pussy, with a whip!

3. When in a relationship (married, living together or dating) What do you do if you want to be alone for a while? How do you get “me” time?

When I was married in order to get alone time I would just go to Barnes & Nobles or Borders :+)
That always did the trick "I feel like reading today"

4. Which of these subjects causes the most tension or fighting between you and your significant other…

TMI Tuesday - taking things seriously

This week’s TMI Tuesday was derived from a book called Taking Things Seriously. Read on, you’ll get the drift. TakingThingsSeriously “Step into any living room, office, studio or den of just about any engaged, imaginative, passionate person and you will find an item that, although it may not appear particularly valuable, is reverentially displayed as though it were a precious and irreplaceable artifact.” For example: scraps of movie posters scavenged from the streets of NYC by ‘Low Life’ author Luc Sante. A WWI prison camp hunk of bread forced upon photographer Rosamond Purcell by an elderly neighbor…you get the idea. 1. Think about your environments–home, office, vehicle, what sort of inanimate objects hold special meaning and significance for you. List/name the objects, tell us why they hold a special place. Share some photos if you dare.

the old nestle theme cups and the knife (very sharp, it is a hunting collection, I have 1 of 5)
my very first music box *sighs* very heavy, given to me…

I can't help it - The Butt Plug

There are things He mentions and things I see that will make me have certain thoughts through the entire day which will lead me to do things in places that I should be not taking certain risks, but I did.
I played with myself in an office that someone was kind enough to allow me to use to do a webinar, took a huge risk, just so happen that a few minutes after someone walked in.   As if that wasn't enough, I did it again.
Darn Tumblr
No secret I am a bit afraid of anal yet I am so eager for the moment to come Can you blame me? I have been studying, researching, reading blogs and their advice on the matter, but I don't think any of that will help me for when the actual act arrives.
For now, I am just going to admire the view and probably ask if I can get one

amazing ending
Sincerely Yours Aluv

TMI Tuesday -

Another Monday, another week, another TMI Tuesday posted. Enjoy Night Time is the Right Time.

Fill in the blank 1. When I can’t sleep I Masturbate and knocks me right out .

2. My dream bedroom would be full of sexual toys and gadgets of "our" His kinky choice .

3. If I could wake up anywhere tomorrow it would be with him and in his arms, 4K miles away across the ocean .

4. I need to cum  at night.

5. If I can't cum before I fall asleep it would truly be a nightmare.

6. Night time is the right time to relax .

Bonus:  Briefly tell us about your last dream–erotic or not.

oh my, i can't remember my dreams last night, ooops, but i know it had something to do with a car.


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website! Happy TMI Tuesday!

What a difference a day makes

"a good and sweet Monday baby mine"  From my Papi mine
I don't look forward to Monday mornings, is not a secret I am no longer happy with my job, so on Sunday I am already down and having little panic attacks, feeling anxious, can't sleep and just miserable. 
I want to say thank you to my Papi mine for the way he woke me up this morning. A dark, cold, rainy Monday morning, but it is the best I have felt in weeks! He makes a huge difference.
Playful through the weekend and occupying my mind and thoughts all weekend with images of things that are to come, His distraction worked wonders and here I am today, smiling, happy, giggly through the halls at work, feeling special, loved, wanted, and oh so good!!
Enjoy the song!

What a difference a day made twenty four little hours brought the sun and the flowers where there used to be rain
my yesterday was blue, dear today I'm part of you, dear my lonely nights are through, dear since you said you were mine
Lord, What a diff…

150 Questions from Tumblr

Found this questions a few weeks ago, they have been sitting in my draft since...

Time to post!
1. Who was the last person you held hands with?
my son

2. Are you outgoing or shy?
outgoing all the way...could be shy at first depending on the situation

3. Who are you looking forward to seeing?
my Owner!!!!!!!

4. Are you easy to get along with?
yes I am!!

5. If you were drunk would the person you like take care of you?
I never get drunk but if it ever comes down to it, I hope so!

6. What kind of people are you attracted to?
fun, funny, spontaneous, what most people would consider odd, out of the ordinary

7. Do you think you’ll be in a relationship two months from now?
I do

8. Who from the opposite gender is on your mind?
my Owner

9. Does talking about sex make you uncomfortable?
not at all!!

10. Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with?

11. What does the most recent text that you sent say?
Get ready, I will be there by 2pm

12. What are your 5 favorite songs right now?
Gloomy …