A true submissive isn't created within the pages of fan fiction
.....she is born
(I don't necessarily agree with this answer, some women could be trained to become great submissive/slaves, we are not born to become a submissive, or raised to be such, contrary to that. We are told to be strong, stand up, practically telling us not to take shit from anyone, we are told everyday we don't need a man to be happy or feel complete, we are equal, fight for our rights!
I don't think we are born submissive, we choose to be submissive)
A true Dominant isn't trained in chat rooms
.....He is born
(Women in my culture already see men as Dominant, the alpha, the one in charge, we are bred that way *grins*. so I do agree with that statement, and also, in some cases, there are women who bring out the Dominant in a man)
A BDSM "scene" creates neither
.....That's kinky sex
A true submissive isn't "subdued" or "conquered"