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A woman over 40

This is for all you girls 40 years and over..... and for those who are turning 40, and for those who are scared of moving into their 40's...AND for guys who are scared of girls over 40!!!!.... This was written by Andy Rooney from CBS 60 Minutes.Andy Rooney says:As I grow in age, I value women who are over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's usually something more interesting.A woman over 40 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 40 don’t give a damn about what you might think about her or what she's doing.Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in…

TMI Tuesday - Dr Aluv in da house!

Busy day, busy week but not too busy to TMI Tuesday. Let’s play doctor
1. Have you had major surgery? What type?

yes, I have.
breast reduction

2. Have you died and been resuscitated?

nope, not yet!

3. Do you have surgery scar(s) that embarrass you? Where?

I do but they dont embarass me at all
breast - from breast reduction
tummy - from c-section

4. Do you have a scar, on your body, of which you are proud?

not proud of any scars, just not embarrassed by them

5. Have you ever played doctor and nurse as foreplay for sex? Which were you–doctor or nurse?

not yet!
I am sure I will not be the Dr. or the nurse, probably the patient

Bonus: Do you like bdsm medical play? What about that excites you?

will have to do research on this sort of play...but for the moment, not interested.

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on…

TMI Tuesday - Computer behavior

Computer Behavior 1. Do you access the Internet on a your own computer or a shared computer?
my own!

2. Do you regularly browse web sites that you would prefer your significant other (or your mother!) not know about?
yes, and that only applies to my mother

3. Do you have browser bookmarks for sites you would prefer no one else know about?
yes, like a story my Papi mine sent me so I could read....

4. Do you clear your browser history? If yes, how often?
every time I am getting off the computer, is a habit

5. Do you use “incognito windows” for some of your browsing?
i do

6. Do you overwrite deleted files?
don't know what that means, so I guess the answer is no

7. How often do you total shut down your home computer? Tablet?
every day, before i go to bed

8. Do you have one or more pseudonyms that you use on the web? How many? What do you use them for?
I do, and only 1, and use it for blogging and my G+, and maybe twitter

9. How many email accounts do you have? Why?
a few...cause it just happen…

TMI Tuesday - Snooping

It’s time for another TMI Tuesday and… Snooping If I were to come to your home… 1. And look in your refrigerator what would I see?
a post it that reads "self control & self discipline" and it usually gets pushed to the side and of course things that we always have in the fridge, cage free eggs, almond milk, new found love "banana peppers", mayo, cheese..etc
2. And open your front room closet or hall closet, what would I see?
a bunch of boxes that I have not looked through since I moved, it is practically my storage unit
3. And open the top left drawer of your dresser, what would I see?
you probably have the wrong apartment cause I dont have a dresser
4. And go to your bedroom and look under the bed, what would I see?
a glass of water, my grandmother would put a glass of water under the bed to keep bad dreams away, so I always do that.
5. And look under your basement stairs, what would I find?
N/A Bonus: When visiting other people’s homes and using the bathroom–friend…

TMI Tuesday - Fill in the blanks

Fill in the blanks for this TMI Tuesday. Make it fun, make it sexy or do whatever you want. 1. My dream vacation is to actually take vacation . a lot of people take vacation to stay home, if that is the case I will just go to work instead.  If and when I take vacation I want it to be busy, doing productive things, for instance, I took half a week vacation to do spring cleaning, paint apartment, etc. 2. Right now I’m in a total daze . I swear, I don't know how i can function day in and day out when my thoughts are constantly occupied with and on him 3. I’m done with negative people and situations . I have changed, the way i see the world and the way i see people.  no negativity wanted or needed here 4. The most enjoyable thing around the holidays is the Christmas music and decorations . although there are some stations they start too early in the season and by the time the end of December comes around you wanna stab yourself on the neck with a fork (or someone else). 5. Dashing th…

Happy Thanksgiving to all!!

Looking forward to this evening, 2 big things on my list...
1. brother is in town for the next few weeks
he is leaving to Korea soon :(

2. Pie
I am not a fan of pie, it is why I save this date to indulge
Apple pie usually the day after thanksgiving, mid morning, cold from the fridge
Pumpkin pie, my favorite one after stuffing my face with all the delicious food

Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays, unfortunately people are more interested in black friday, the deals they are going to get and how fast they can eat and be out of the house to go shopping. I don't do black Friday I don't even do business black friday of any sort. My son tried to pull that crap that he was going to meet up with friends around 10pm cause he wanted to be one of the first ones at midnight to be there for the xbox..nah, I dont think so, sorry to have messed up his plans, this means I will be playing detective and watchman all night! *grins

be thankful for what you have, not only on this…

TMI Tuesday - Flashback!

seems like we are running a bit late this week...what a way to start thanksgiving week!TMI Flashback

1. Which ONE do you wish you had more of in bed… romance, experimentation or foreplay?
I consider myself lucky cause I have all three and would like to keep it that way, glad dont have to choose!

2. What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them?
talk bad about his previous dates and relationships
at any sign that he is cheap
lied about smoking (true story) 3 Tell us something sexual you do not do anymore? Why?
does not apply to me at the moment *grins* 4. During sex would you rather have a lover: (pick only one) a. pull your hair b. scratch your back  c.  spank your ass
gosh, i love how he pulls my hair when he is roughing me up!
but I have to say I am at my weakest when he spanks me!
so I will have to say C 5. Foreplay: Is there such a thing as too much?
NEVER! Bonus: What is the best thing about you?
my d…

it made an impression

The expression on her face The way he is holding the mirror so she can view and probably admire her nudity
Maybe he is showing her the beauty he sees in her
I kept looking at this picture for a long time and it reminded me how He taught me how to love myself by showing me how much he loved it himself.
thank you Papi mine!

Now I understand why Yogis eventually give up their cars!

((Just an observation))
Lately I have been experiencing a bit of anger towards other people while on the road, not because of their bad driving but because of the way they act, and react.

So many bad and angry drivers out there.

For a while now I have been doing my share of practicing what I preach, meditating, doing stretches in the morning and night because I really want to give this yoga a try, setting fears aside, letting go of what is not good for my body and mind and another one is controlling and letting go of anger which I think is one of the hardest ones to do. I am up to date with several instablogs I follow from people who practice yoga and holistic living and I have noticed that most of them have given up on their vehicle.  I also read that monks don't drive either and after a bit of research I found out it is because of the anger issues that can be developed while driving (also because of pollution and such)
You see, Yogis practice to be present and focused on what t…

TMI Tuesday - secrets!

Truly TMI TuesdayWhat are you hiding? 1. Tell us something you like but you hide it from your friends because you think they will make fun of you or not understand.
I really don't give a crap what anyone thinks, I am the type that lives and let live, if they have issues with my doings in any way they can take it up with someone who really gives a damn...I don't judge and expect the same...In the past when someone has made comments in regards to how I do things or things I like I dismiss it and dont allow it to bother me. 2. Tell us something you hide from you family because they would be ashamed of you.
the fact i am with someone who considers poly relationships 3. What do you hide from your kids because they just don’t need to know?
not a thing, always been open about every little thing... 4. When was the last time you hid from something or someone?
not so long ago...OOOOPSY, Papi mine, I am so so sorry
if you want to know what it is...clickHERE 5. What things or objects do you…

I quit!

In 2009 I quit smoking, I can't say it was hard, challenging but not hard.  The hardest moments came after.

When things ended with my Master I sorta took up smoking here and there and quit again.  I didn't do it long enough to become a habit or part of the routine, and it also made me realize how much I hated the smell, the taste but most of all how embarrassed I get when others would see me smoking.
I didn't enjoy the smell or the after taste but I loved me a cigarette each time I went to the bathroom, needless to say I became constipated when I quit, it became so bad I ended up having colon hydrotherapy to get me back on track. Most people gain weight when they quit, that was not my case, it was another routine to have a cigarette after a meal and that was the best feeling ever!  Even before I was done eating I was already thinking of my first drag, how I knew that cigarette was going to be the finishing touch to a great meal Another thing I had to do was to disconnect m…

TMI Tuesday - in need of therapy

Welcome to another TMI Tuesday. Step in to my office, have a lie down on the comfy couch… TMI Therapy
1. What brings you here, to TMI Tuesday blog? I found TMI while lurking through peoples blog, seemed fun and I have been hooked ever since.  I enjoy reading the different answers and views, the similarities as well.
It is also a great way to spill ones dirty laundry in a fun sorta way. 2. Have you played TMI Tuesday before? How often do you play? every single week, have not missed a week since I started (2012)! 3. What’s your problem? I like to lurk, know about people, figure them out, i'm like a blog peeping tom 4. How does playing TMI Tuesday make you feel? naked sometimes cause it puts me on the spot with some of the questions...LOL and so curious, with an I wanna it know it all face/expression while reading peoples answer (yes, I am a lurking, I don't leave comments, I'm the ninja lurker!) 5. Does TMI Tuesday help you get ideas for writing? sometimes

Things are great!

Still adjusting to the new changes.  I have learned that every single day is an opportunity to make it better.  I concentrate on today, the moment, not dwell on past hurtful events and just keep moving forward.

I do compare what a difference from where I used to be to where I am at and wow!  What a difference.  Feeling content, happy with myself, with the decisions I've made, the approaches I've taken to feel better, be better, positive mind, and attitude.

How much I have grown and the difference it has made.
It sucks in a way haha...
for example:
It is so hard for me to go grocery shopping like I did before, I am always questioning how the food is grown, if the eggs are cage and hormone free, getting away from red meat, and it is a struggle each day.
When I was in NL it was easier, I was not as doubtful when purchasing food, and I ate at ease, the food was more fresh, and one can tell the difference.
Is the same when I go to DR; I knew that the chicken I was eating was fresh…

TMI Tuesday - Welcome to Movember!!

Welcome to the lovely month of November and to TMI Tuesday.
1. Are there any literary or TV/movie relationships that remind you of one of your real life relationships? I could say a bit like that movie "Her" but I am the one dragging the phone around showing him places most of the time
2. Would you rather make a
a. phone call
b. text
c. email It all depends who I am trying to get a hold of!  some people I have to call cause they do not like texting.  Some I will call and they wait til I hang up and text me..what?  (sorry, but I am this type of offender depending of who is calling me...oopsy), and/or some people who are always on their FB I will send them an fb message because i know that is the best way to get a hold of them...yeah, what ever happened to going out and actually finding people?
3. What are you wanting more of in your sex life right now? to get it more often!  (i need to move) 4. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about th…

TMIT - Ohh Yeah Papi!!

Here at TMI Tuesday blog let’s talk about sex. Sex…ohhh yeah!
1. Sex. What are your areas of expertise?

Blow Jobs/Oral - I'm such a great cock sucker!
I was also great at doggy style but my Master sorta got me last time I was there, must make it a point to up my game next time

2. How long have you been having sex?

Since I lost my virginity...for 27 years!
minus the years I didn't have any, that will bring it down to about 23 years

3. What time of day do you prefer to have sex?
a. morning
b. afternoon
c. night

d.  I will take it any time of the day!  Morning - He gives me a reason to smile for the rest of the day; Afternoon - in case he wants me to take a nap, he already knows what to do; Night - I just sleep better and will be knocked out until the next day.

4. Do you charge for sex? Money or some other means of payment?

nah, i just do it for the orgasms and the pleasure

5. How long does your average sexual encounter last?

some days 2 - 4 hours
other days 2-3 hours in the mornin…