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Happy Thanksgiving to all!!

Looking forward to this evening, 2 big things on my list...
1. brother is in town for the next few weeks
he is leaving to Korea soon :(

2. Pie
I am not a fan of pie, it is why I save this date to indulge
Apple pie usually the day after thanksgiving, mid morning, cold from the fridge
Pumpkin pie, my favorite one after stuffing my face with all the delicious food

Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays, unfortunately people are more interested in black friday, the deals they are going to get and how fast they can eat and be out of the house to go shopping. I don't do black Friday I don't even do business black friday of any sort. My son tried to pull that crap that he was going to meet up with friends around 10pm cause he wanted to be one of the first ones at midnight to be there for the xbox..nah, I dont think so, sorry to have messed up his plans, this means I will be playing detective and watchman all night! *grins

be thankful for what you have, not only on this…

TMI Tuesday - Flashback!

seems like we are running a bit late this week...what a way to start thanksgiving week!TMI Flashback

1. Which ONE do you wish you had more of in bed… romance, experimentation or foreplay?
I consider myself lucky cause I have all three and would like to keep it that way, glad dont have to choose!

2. What are three mistakes someone could make on the first date with you that would automatically make you turn down a second date with them?
talk bad about his previous dates and relationships
at any sign that he is cheap
lied about smoking (true story) 3 Tell us something sexual you do not do anymore? Why?
does not apply to me at the moment *grins* 4. During sex would you rather have a lover: (pick only one) a. pull your hair b. scratch your back  c.  spank your ass
gosh, i love how he pulls my hair when he is roughing me up!
but I have to say I am at my weakest when he spanks me!
so I will have to say C 5. Foreplay: Is there such a thing as too much?
NEVER! Bonus: What is the best thing about you?
my d…

it made an impression

The expression on her face The way he is holding the mirror so she can view and probably admire her nudity
Maybe he is showing her the beauty he sees in her
I kept looking at this picture for a long time and it reminded me how He taught me how to love myself by showing me how much he loved it himself.
thank you Papi mine!

Now I understand why Yogis eventually give up their cars!

((Just an observation))
Lately I have been experiencing a bit of anger towards other people while on the road, not because of their bad driving but because of the way they act, and react.

So many bad and angry drivers out there.

For a while now I have been doing my share of practicing what I preach, meditating, doing stretches in the morning and night because I really want to give this yoga a try, setting fears aside, letting go of what is not good for my body and mind and another one is controlling and letting go of anger which I think is one of the hardest ones to do. I am up to date with several instablogs I follow from people who practice yoga and holistic living and I have noticed that most of them have given up on their vehicle.  I also read that monks don't drive either and after a bit of research I found out it is because of the anger issues that can be developed while driving (also because of pollution and such)
You see, Yogis practice to be present and focused on what t…

TMI Tuesday - secrets!

Truly TMI TuesdayWhat are you hiding? 1. Tell us something you like but you hide it from your friends because you think they will make fun of you or not understand.
I really don't give a crap what anyone thinks, I am the type that lives and let live, if they have issues with my doings in any way they can take it up with someone who really gives a damn...I don't judge and expect the same...In the past when someone has made comments in regards to how I do things or things I like I dismiss it and dont allow it to bother me. 2. Tell us something you hide from you family because they would be ashamed of you.
the fact i am with someone who considers poly relationships 3. What do you hide from your kids because they just don’t need to know?
not a thing, always been open about every little thing... 4. When was the last time you hid from something or someone?
not so long ago...OOOOPSY, Papi mine, I am so so sorry
if you want to know what it is...clickHERE 5. What things or objects do you…

I quit!

In 2009 I quit smoking, I can't say it was hard, challenging but not hard.  The hardest moments came after.

When things ended with my Master I sorta took up smoking here and there and quit again.  I didn't do it long enough to become a habit or part of the routine, and it also made me realize how much I hated the smell, the taste but most of all how embarrassed I get when others would see me smoking.
I didn't enjoy the smell or the after taste but I loved me a cigarette each time I went to the bathroom, needless to say I became constipated when I quit, it became so bad I ended up having colon hydrotherapy to get me back on track. Most people gain weight when they quit, that was not my case, it was another routine to have a cigarette after a meal and that was the best feeling ever!  Even before I was done eating I was already thinking of my first drag, how I knew that cigarette was going to be the finishing touch to a great meal Another thing I had to do was to disconnect m…

TMI Tuesday - in need of therapy

Welcome to another TMI Tuesday. Step in to my office, have a lie down on the comfy couch… TMI Therapy
1. What brings you here, to TMI Tuesday blog? I found TMI while lurking through peoples blog, seemed fun and I have been hooked ever since.  I enjoy reading the different answers and views, the similarities as well.
It is also a great way to spill ones dirty laundry in a fun sorta way. 2. Have you played TMI Tuesday before? How often do you play? every single week, have not missed a week since I started (2012)! 3. What’s your problem? I like to lurk, know about people, figure them out, i'm like a blog peeping tom 4. How does playing TMI Tuesday make you feel? naked sometimes cause it puts me on the spot with some of the questions...LOL and so curious, with an I wanna it know it all face/expression while reading peoples answer (yes, I am a lurking, I don't leave comments, I'm the ninja lurker!) 5. Does TMI Tuesday help you get ideas for writing? sometimes

Things are great!

Still adjusting to the new changes.  I have learned that every single day is an opportunity to make it better.  I concentrate on today, the moment, not dwell on past hurtful events and just keep moving forward.

I do compare what a difference from where I used to be to where I am at and wow!  What a difference.  Feeling content, happy with myself, with the decisions I've made, the approaches I've taken to feel better, be better, positive mind, and attitude.

How much I have grown and the difference it has made.
It sucks in a way haha...
for example:
It is so hard for me to go grocery shopping like I did before, I am always questioning how the food is grown, if the eggs are cage and hormone free, getting away from red meat, and it is a struggle each day.
When I was in NL it was easier, I was not as doubtful when purchasing food, and I ate at ease, the food was more fresh, and one can tell the difference.
Is the same when I go to DR; I knew that the chicken I was eating was fresh…

TMI Tuesday - Welcome to Movember!!

Welcome to the lovely month of November and to TMI Tuesday.
1. Are there any literary or TV/movie relationships that remind you of one of your real life relationships? I could say a bit like that movie "Her" but I am the one dragging the phone around showing him places most of the time
2. Would you rather make a
a. phone call
b. text
c. email It all depends who I am trying to get a hold of!  some people I have to call cause they do not like texting.  Some I will call and they wait til I hang up and text me..what?  (sorry, but I am this type of offender depending of who is calling me...oopsy), and/or some people who are always on their FB I will send them an fb message because i know that is the best way to get a hold of them...yeah, what ever happened to going out and actually finding people?
3. What are you wanting more of in your sex life right now? to get it more often!  (i need to move) 4. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about th…