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TMI Tuesday - Let's do this!!

Let’s do this!TMI Tuesday 1. How many people do you really trust?
I can't sum it up, but just a few, very few

2. What are you excited for?
my Chakras!!!

3. Have you had sex today?
does cummin counts?

4. When was the last time you talked to someone until you fell asleep? What relation are they to you?
beginning of October of 2015, my Papi mine *grins

5. What is your opinion on sex before marriage?
You never buy a car before test driving it, do you? Bonus: Does your present lover know any of your past lovers? How well?

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!

To anyone who thinks they're falling behind on life (Huff Post)

Read this post a few days ago
it was mean to be...

I am one of those people who needs to keep a list of everything I do so I can feel accomplished at the end of the day

I am one of those people who is always looking for motivational quotes, ways to improve myself and improvise situations.
I don't want to wait for the right time, and when is the right time anyways?

this post put me at rest, for the past two days when I have been feeling that I am not doing enough, that I want to rush on things, I stop, I read it and I must say, it really puts me at ease.
Doesn't mean that I am totally relaxed, but it calms me down.


You don't need more motivation. You don't need to be inspired to action. You don't need to read any more lists and posts about how you're not doing enough. We act as if we can read enough articles and enough little Pinterest quotes and suddenly the little switch in our brain will put us into action. But, honestly, here's the thing that nobody …

Getting up this morning with Qigong

having a few days off doesn't help me at all!

I needed more than meditation to start my day, it was the hardest getting out of bed, still sleepy, wishing to stretch the time and practically cursing at the alarm because the snooze didn't seem to be working.

I was ready, I knew I was going to be feeling this way since I went to bed a little after midnight and it has been like that for quite a few days.
I love my sleep, I have a great relationship with my bed, but I have began to wonder about "sleep" in total and how overrated it is, do we really need to sleep? (that's another blog post)

although I didn't get enough sleep, or it feels that way, I was able to gather a bit of motivation and do something I haven't done in a long time - qigong
the moves came to me quickly, didn't feel it had been so long since I last tried it and after i was done one question came to mind, why did i ever stop?


8 Brocades Qigong
for those who are wondering Tai chi an…

TMI Tuesday - Libido!

TMI Tuesday sexies! 1. In winter does your sexual appetite go on a fast?
does the cold or lack of sun have anything to do with that.
everyone who follows my blog knows i only have sex a few times a year (with someone else) for the rest of the time is me, myself and I, and it is hard trying to keep the appetite alive as is.

2. What do you do to kick-start your libido when in a sexual slump?
nothing, i just wait, i guess is like going through a phase...

3. What is your favorite type of foreplay (to receive)?
kissing, and when he plays with my pussy, oh lawd!!!

4. Mutual masturbation–yes or no? What is your technique?
but of course!
dont really have a technique

5. Do you give your lover massage? How often? How long?
when i go see him, when he is laying down relaxing i love touching him (massaging him) from head to toes.
when he is watching tv i like to go behind him to massage his head, neck and shoulders...
every time i get a chance

Dear Childhood and Adolescence,

I was thinking about you both today. 

I wanted to tell you that now that I have reached Adulthood, I have run into my new friend Ms. Menopause. 

I tried to embrace her like I embraced Rosie Period, I remember when I hung around you Ms. Childhood I couldn't wait to meet my "friend" Rosie Period.  Having her as a friend would be the sign of adolescence. 
Then one day out of nowhere poof, Rosie appeared in my life. She came by to visit once a month. At the beginning I was happy to have her because that meant I was cool. Then she became a nuisance coming around once a month to the point where she was dropping around when I had significant dates in my life. That's when I would say , I can't wait to meet Ms. Menopause. 

Well they say be careful what you wish for. Ms Menopause is my new buddy, she is worse than my friend Rosie Period. She comes with hot flashes, nausea and headaches. She comes unannounced and over stays her welcome. 

With that being said, Ms. Childhood and M…

BUSY and a bit of ranting!

my TMI is up, late but it is up. Proud of myself for that I didn't get to post the last two weeks, have been going through some hardships in my personal life and now things are about to start getting much better and the year I was anticipating is about to begin.
I had my hopes set on high for 2016, I made a shit load of plans but like the quote goes "wanna see God laughing?  just tell him your plans" aint that the truth!
in need to get back in the swing of things Haven't meditated in 2 weeks I haven't had sex with myself for 2 weeks I've been like a zombie in the past 2 weeks, I even fell asleep at work and who catches me?  no other than my boss.  Yup, caught by the one in charge, hello! talk about having a rough beginning of the year! we are only in February, many are saying "wow, it is going fast" but for people having it rough is like "wow, and is only February?"
Having a positive mind helps, it is also suggested to surround ourselves …

TMI Tuesday - Love is in the air (due yesterday - late)

Happy TMI Tuesday, Valentine’s Day is this week. Love is in the Air 1. List 3 benefits of living with your significant other.
I will tell you when i get there, hopefully sooner than later 2. Have you ever reunited with a past lover and begun a relationship? Was the latest relationship as friends or lovers?
not at all...there is a reason why he is a past lover.
the latest relationship...we fell in love the first time we spoke 3. Do you think someone is more sexy if they regularly read books or work out regularly at a gym?
you had me at reading books!! yes!! 4. How likely do you think it is that your marriage will end in divorce?
Very likely!
it did! 5. Who has more power in your love or romantic relationship–you or your partner?

TMI Tuesday - Maintenance (late post)

TMI Tuesday…YES!! Maintenance 1. When was the last time you changed your windshield wipers? Should they be changed now?
a few years ago...they should have been changed years ago!

2. When was the last time you got a haircut or your hair ends trimmed?
full moon in January 2016

3. When was the last time you changed the HVAC filter in your home? Check it now.
that is up to the condo need to worry about that

4. Is your car due for an oil change? When was the last time you had this done?
that I am on top of!
2 weeks ago

5. Check your fun gauge–When is the last time you did something truly fun with a loved one?
I am due!  October 2015

6. When is the last time you tried something new sexually? What was it? Did you like it enough to repeat it? September/October 2015
I need it
I want it

I gotta have it