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Friday is Boobday


been looking through old pics and I can't believe how much I have aged in just 2 years. 
I can honestly say I miss myself, what I used to be.   My fault though, and since I realized how I've changed and how much I miss myself, already began to make some modifications. In need  of motivation

TMI Tuesday - ya gotta do what you gotta do

Sometimes ya gotta do, what ya gotta do–like play TMI Tuesday!Sexy Specifics
Liz Lemon and Jack Donaghy. from “30 Rock” 1. What do you find sexiest in a woman?
the way she takes care of herself, a woman who is on top of her game! 2. What do you find least sexy in a man?
a man who constantly complaints
a man who gossips like a woman 3. Have you ever been the other woman or man? Would you do it again?
Yup, I have
Nope, will never put myself in that position again. 4. Who puts more into a romantic relationship you or your significant other?
of! 5. Do you have a “work wife” or “office husband”?
neither Bonus: Are you in a healthy relationship? What makes you think so?
I am not
lets just leave it there for now Bonus, bonus: Is the “work spouse” strictly a U.S. American anomaly (they do spend an insane amount of hours at work)? One study found 32% of Americans admitted to having a work spouse.


Friday is Boobday

TMI Tuesday - Spice it up

Getting frisky and bold are you? Prove it, play TMI Tuesday.Spiceit up! 1. Why should you have sex on a first date?
to see if we are sexually compatible and there is sexual chemistry.

2. Why do you dislike giving oral sex?
I actually don't, I am a great cock sucker

3. Tongue or no tongue? Explain.
must use that soft, velvet tongue in there.

4. Would you have a sugar daddy or sugar mama?
Hell yeah!
any takers?

5. What’s a sure sign that you need to get laid?
I don't know about the signs of me needing to get laid, but...
this girly needs to get laid
getting laid makes me feel pretty
makes me feel new

TMI Tuesday - Past and Present

Past&Present 1. What was your favorite band in high school? I am an 80's kid and grew up watching MTV, Aerosmith was my favorite band!  

2. What is your favorite band now? I don't have one

3. What was your go to “make me feel better” food in high school? Pizza, bread with butter and hot chocolate

4. What is your go to “make me feel better” food now? Why? fried plantain with fried eggs and salami 

5. Fill in the blank:  That wonderful cheery, feel complete mood was then; this grouchy, menopausal, I can't stand the hormonal changes is now. Bonus: Where were you and what were you doing on November 21, 2016? I was working and wearing black and white like I am today!  what are the odds??


Day 324 - Happy Monday

Short week!  I think I have written that phrase a few times today, specially on twitter.  I am looking forward to the 4 days off, going to sleep late, even on Thanksgiving.

I will be cooking but it wont take that long, I will be enjoying my time from the bed to the front of the stove. 
We split the dishes this year and it makes it easier on everyone, that way my mom or myself wont be in the kitchen the entire day like we used to a few years back.

I finally got my bedroom set, still trying to make things fit since I live in an apartment that is not so far from been a tiny home, and I've had to get rid off my kitchen set, a couch and a few antique tables (in storage)
Never realized how much clothes and shoes I have until I ended up with just one closet and 6 drawers, my daughter is occupying a bureau and that is 5 drawers I can put to use and I need them badly (can't wait for that child to move out!).

The morning was extremely cold, some snow here and there but not enough to c…

TMI Tuesday - Self Care

First off–yaay! I can get into TMI Tuesday blog account via computer again. Second, here is TMI Tuesday–all about Self-care. Outside of regular hygiene activities–bathing, brushing teeth, hair care, let’s talk about what you do for self-care*. 1. Have you ever had a professional massage? If yes, what type? If no, why not? Yes I have~!
full body, Swiss massage 2. Do you engage in the following? Tell us all that apply and how often you do it
b. tai chi c. float therapy d. run/jog e. workout–any that isn’t actually training for something but is for physical fitness maintenance f. other – what? - stretching

stretching and yoga but yoga has been a challenge this days cause of the weight gain
in need of evaluating my diet 3. How many hours of sleep do you average on a weeknight? Weekend? Do you think you need more or less sleep?
about 6-7 hours a night 4. Which of the following are you most likely to add to your self-care routine and stick with it? a. Schedule in a planner daily “me time” - I already…

Day 317

I guess if we had another life we probably don't know who or what we were.  I think I found out exactly what I was in my other life.

A vegetable
Saturday I went out early in the morning to get some stuff done, it was extremely cold but I wanted an excuse to be out of the house.   Each time I went out I would leave something else for later on, just because I wanted and needed that excuse to step outside.   Didn't work, I was done before 11 am and from there on I was just on a veggie state.

Watched Chinese and Korean soaps while flicking through Netflix and Hulu
caught up with Lucifer and Grey's anatomy and looking forward to the new episodes
realized for the first time since I've moved in how cold it is inside the apartment due to the bad/broken windows that are installed (must get them replaced).

a very monotonous weekend, didn't even get online, didn't even look at my laptop
where does my motivation go during the weekend?

how very discouraging it is to…

Love Our Lurkers 2017

November 12, 13 & 14 is...

Love our lurkers!! or LOL

I admit
a huge lurker here, I bet some of you don't know if I hit your page or not!
that is how good I am

I thought I was stalking people until I discovered the word "lurker"
you know how it feels to follow someones' blog and you already think that you are part of their family? 
cry when they cry
laugh when they laugh
and even get mad when someone hurts them....yeah, it can happen to the best lurkers!


I will be taking this 3 days to actually come out of hiding and leave some comments that day, I never really do, rarely I do, but from Nov 12 - 14 I will not be a lurker!

and for the lurkers who visit my page, please, say hello!!
I am friendly, very friendly!



Friday is Boobday - Ready for work

Finally Friday!

happy Boobday

Day 313 .

Good morning!

Feeling great since it is Thursday and just a day away from the marvelous weekend.  I love to sleep in but at the same time I feel I waste precious time when I do.  So much to do, so much I want to do, so many plans that are made, yet once I am home it is hard for me to get out of the house.
After work I just want to run home, it has been like this for a very long time.  I tried breaking the routine, went to my friends house every night to cook, it was great spending time with her and the kids but by the time I got home it was 6:30/7:00 PM and I only had a small window before going to bed.
I was not enjoying my new place, and not having enough time with my was just not working out for "me"

Today was the first frost of this winter, it was so cold this morning that everything was covered with tiny crystals of ice and it looked amazing.
Unlike a lot of people I can't wait for the snow-days, and the heavy ones too.  You see, I get the days off and paid…

Day 311

First things first....
the list!
- I set reminders but didn't get to it! haa!! - Could not blog last night, I think that would be too much writing  and don't have much to write about, is not like I have an interesting life...not yet, but I am working on it. - I worked!! even prepared the lecture for today...woohoo, feels great to get ahead. - Drank a half gallon - No yoga poses, and no stretching, to be honest I forgot, got distracted with the Goblin (Korean drama)
Skipped TMI Tuesday but I am still lurking and checking out the stories other bloggers wrote.  There is always next week.  
I really have no idea how bloggers do it, how they have so much to say and it is always interesting. I am fascinated and enjoy reading about other peoples lives, what they  do, what they like, how they are feeling, and the wonderful pictures to go with the post.   Always interested on how others live, their reaction to situations, and how they cope with life in general.  I even …

Day 310 of 2017

Good morning

Taking it day by day and trying to take a break from this busy mind of mine
the daydreamer - I probably live more in my mind and thoughts than the average person around me.  I know there are people like me out there, spending so much time in their thoughts that reality seems to be the actual dream, but I am trying to get out that because I need to start living my life.

I spent the weekend in hiding, trying to get out of my head but that did not work, I spent a lot of time watching Dramafever (Korean, Japanese, Chinese drama), contemplating of places I want to visit, cleaning and rearranging my new place, which I have to say is like living in a tiny house (my dream came true!), did a bit of food shopping and seasoned all the meat ahead of time so I will not have to deal with it later on - see?  I can actually think ahead and do something that will probably make things easier later on.

Saturday I was supposed to meet someone, but by the time he told that he was just g…

Friday is Boobday - Getting back in the swing of things

I make promises to myself... I break them ...for me, it is very hard to maintain consistency, I try, but is not so hard to fall off the wagon.   Why? I hate monotony, I don't do well with schedules although I am a fan of making "to-do lists" even though I only follow them for a few days. the story of my life!
lets see how I do for the next two months. made a promise about blogging and letting it all out.   The good The bad & The ugly

TMI Tuesday - Look Inside

This week, let’s have a look inside your relationship by playing TMI Tuesday. 1. How much time do you spend taking care of your significant other:
a. More than taking care of myself, more than 60% of my time. b. About 50% of my time. c. 10% to 49% … I have kids! d. Not really any time at all, definitely less than 10% of my time. (we are in a LDR, is not really by choice at the moment, I actually wish I could take care of him in more ways than one)

2. How do you sleep at night?
a. With the whole bed to my myself…yaay! b. I stay on my own side, someone else on other side. c. We snuggle–start that way or end up that way. d. We do not sleep together. 
and I don't know how I am going to manage when the day does come, I am so used to sleeping alone, having the bed to myself...ugh...yeah...bad habits 3. What happens when you or your significant other gets home from work?
a. Stop what you are doing to greet and hug each other b. Engage in conversation about the day c. No specific acknowledgement of each…

TMI Tuesday - It's Complicated

It’s Complicated 1. How do you gauge the success of your romantic relationships?
we are both happy, content, our communication level is amazing...Is hard to gauge the success of someones romantic relationship, specially my own at this moment
2. How often do you prefer to talk about sex with your lover? Lmao!
I think every other sentence out of my mouth is about sex when speaking to my Papi mine! 3. During sex, what is your top priority? how to keep my noise level to a minimum! 4. What advice would you like to give your partner to be a better lover? Are you afraid to give that advice? He is absolutely perfect for me
we are in total sync! 5. While in the moment of having sex, what is the best way you like to receive feedback from a lover that they are enjoying or are not enjoying sex a. moans and groans b. tell me in dirty talk c. give me direction or be explicit d. just fuck, tell me later if it was good for you e. a combination of all of the above

Bonus: Are you an idiot? Why or why not?
I can be at ti…