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TMI Tuesday - Relationship

Hello. Welcome. Please enjoy doing this TMI Tuesday. 1. Why would you go to a therapist? a. You need support b. You want to take responsibility for your life’s outcomes? c. You need guidance and to be told what to do d. to get drugs I can't acquire legally (anxiety pills), and a letter letting my boss know that I am overworked and I need time out 2. Thinking of the main male lover in your life, what is sex for him: a. stress relief, tension reliever b. a way to show love c. something exciting he likes to do d. a combination of all of them! 3. Do you feel a partner is being invasive for wanting to know your plans and inner thoughts? not in our case and relationship, it is part of our deal you can say 4. In your opinion, what is intimate sharing? lmao, the first thing that went through my mind was exchanging of saliva!  I must be on the right track! me is sharing with a person things you will normally not share with everyone else 5. Would you enjoy a weekend by yourself, without the compa…
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TMI Tuesday Bonus Question from last week

Bonus: Go do last week’s TMI questions that were posted on Friday. Great questions!
It’s the weekend…yaay! No week is complete without TMI Tuesday. So here it is on Friday  1. You are going to make a sexy weekend with your lover. Which one are you most likely to enjoy? Which of the activities is most likely to happen? a. Cook dinner together b. Play a sexy game c. Take a bath together
since something like this is not likely to happen anytime soon I would have to say...
we would start by cooking dinner together
after dinner we play a sexy game
and before we go to bed we take a bath together 2. Will you watch porn this weekend? Alone or with someone?
alone, as usual! 3. Sexy games–pick one you’d like to play? Why? a. Naked twister or
b. Strip trivial pursuit 3. Friday night you hit happy hour, you meet a super sexy woman/man and the two of you chat and laugh the night away. She/he leans into you and says, “You’re irresistible, can I touch your pussy/cock?’ What is your answer?

TMI Tuesday

Greetings! Have a wonderful week, start it off withTMI Tuesday. 1. What is your reality? do I have one?
my reality is the thoughts I create and the dreamworld I live in

2. Will you have sex today? This week? nope and nope
yes, I know, I am lame, a monogamist, and I don't cheat

3. What did you hate doing this past weekend? Working on a Saturday, having to wake up so early on a weekend.

4. What did you love doing this past weekend? making the extra hours cause my paycheck is going to look sweet at the end of the week

5. Which new technology have you found most helpful in your life?  my phone - I can do everything with it.

Which do you find to be the most annoying? my phone - because I can't be without it and constantly looking at it even when no new messages are coming in...bad habit

Bonus: Go do last week’s TMI questions that were posted on Friday. Great questions!
sure thing!!


How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e.…

TMI Tuesday - sexy time

It’s sexy time! Today is the day, the day you decide to play TMI Tuesday. 1. Have you ever had sex in the changing room of a store? nope, I so wish!
maybe one day I will 2. Ever blindfolded your partner for sex or have you been blindfolded during sex? I was blindfolded by my Master
it was wonderful! 3. Who out there likes to be tied up for sex? I have an issue with not been able to move, but I am down to try...after so many trips to see him and seen the ropes around and he never tied me up...I secretly wished he did 4. Shower sex…yea or nay? Why? yea
because is nice and clean, and i love how my  hands glide all over his body all lathered up with soap 5. Ever done a striptease for a l over? yes, but we both ended up laughing our asses off!! Bonus: What are you thinking?
i can't even begin to tell you!
so much crap running through my thoughts is not even funny.
I have to admit that I like that about myself, don't know what I would do if my mind wasn't running all day (thinking all day)


TMI Tuesday - Sex on the brain

Sex on the Brain 1. Is a weird “sex face/orgasm face” a total deal-breaker? LOL! that would be hilarious and incorporated in our sexual activities 2. Do you enjoy having your balls played with (or playing with balls)? I do!!
they are part of the territory 3. Have you ever hooked-up with somebody based on their proximity to your smartphone location (Tinder, GRINDR, etc)? i dont do Tinder or GRINDR...
i signed up for tinder, within 15 minutes I deleted the app.  And this is the first time I heard of grindr 4. You have some free-time in the workday–blow job or intercourse? (BJ can be giving or receiving). intercourse...we should both get pleasure 5. How long after having sex with a new partner do you have to wait before falling asleep? I snore, very conscious about it too!  fighting my sleep all the way. Bonus: What’s the dirtiest or sexiest text message you’ve ever received? I can't really put my finger on just one, but when he surprises me with voice messages, specially when i am not expecting an…

Sinful Sunday - Overtime

Making sure I put a few extra hours of work this weekend! Love the Overtime!

Back to square one

Sitting at a home depot parking lot contemplating, thinking, reflecting, wondering and going back to the last years of my life.  Each time finding myself going back even further trying to find the root or roots to my problems, encountering the same  situations that to me seem to be dejavu.I am 42 years old, I should be at my prime, at my highest, living life, enjoying myself, financially secured, enjoying the benefits of all the hard work I have put throughout the years, be stable, organized, constant, applied, maybe I don't want to admit it but I should also add responsible. 
However, I am not even close to owning up to any of the qualities I mentioned above, instead I am living life like a gypsy, staying with a friend and sleeping on a mattress, on the floor because her sons' bed is too high (a bunk bed without a bottom bed).
She approached me, made me an offer I couldn't refuse, it was better than the campsite I was staying at, I have to admit, camping is fun but is on…