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TMI Tuesday - Times are changing

TMI Tuesday…play it, enjoy it! Times keep-a-changin’ 1. Does your workplace have a “casual Friday” or a day when you can dress down or out of uniform?
no, it is weird, is like an assigned jeans' day, you also have to put money in a jar as well (only a dollar)
No casual friday for moi! 2. Has the growth of social media and unabashed sharing of personal info on social media made you MORE or LESS cautious about  your privacy?
I try to keep it private but the way all accounts someway and somehow get linked even if we are using different emails, I swear it has to do with face detection! 3. Is gay marriage legal where you live?
very much so!  I think it was the first state to put it too 4. Is smoking marijuana legal where you live? Under what circumstances?
yes it is...they are still working on it though, but can't get arrested for smoking or for having less than a ounce on you if its not bagged in a way that will be distributed (sold) 5. Give us a hashtag that best describes your weekend. Has…
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T is for Time

Time is precious, isn't it?
When we are young it goes by so slow...
you know how long I had to wait for the three wise kings to come around and give me my awesome toys every 6 of January?
Summer vacation?
Christmas? after moving to this country.
my first snow fall.
My birthday - until I began associating that day with bad memories
Getting boobs and waiting for them to grow the size I thought I wanted them to be
And so it went...waiting for time to rush, to go by, to pass.
those times were so precious, the only thing left now is the wish that time would slow down. I missed the Letter S, actually, I wrote the post on Saturday but forgot to publish, so very typical of me.  I began writing and got distracted with something else, the day went by and I only remembered when I woke up Sunday morning.  Was it too late?
For the past week or so I have been reflecting about my life, things I want, things I will feel happy having in my life, and things that I can and should be doing to get whe…

R is for Resourceful

What do you consider resourceful?

I don't have to look for the exact definition for it, but to me it means that you can make the best out of any messed up situation.  Someone who will try to figure things out and work through any issue that may rise.

I grew up in what a lot of people call "third world" country, we had a lack of electricity, we washed clothes by hand, carried water, etc.
Having all this amenities is like luxury to me (been living in luxury for too long now) and living the way I did made me very resourceful.

I remember a trip that our family took to the lake, we had to drive a bit far, so when we got there the premises were been remodeled.  The grills and benches were gone but there was still people there enjoying the day.
I had seasoned meat, we had burgers, among other things to eat but I was no able to do a thing with it because there was no grill to do it with.
I took three huge stones, went out for a walk to get wood and found some pieces of a fence wh…

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Q is for Questions

If you don't want to know the truth, don't ask.

I try to be as honest as I can so it don't bite me in the ass later on.  If you are a friend and you ask me a question, get ready to hear the raw truth.
It is a problem at times because no question needs to be asked, I just tell it like it is, and as the years go by I get even more honest.

I enjoy when people ask me questions about any type of subject or current affair, specially when they are about conspiracy theory, politics, and history!

There is are only a few questions that I find it hard to answer and they pertain to me.  why is that?

*It was hard to come up with a word that begins with Q, not many options! I asked for assistance from Him :) and as always, more than willing to help me.  I love him!

P is for Positive

Today I had an awakening.  I am ungrateful, I complain so much of the things that are going wrong that I fail to see the blessings that are going on.
I stopped to think about the past week, the great things that are happening which I am clouding by just focusing on the negative.
For a few hours now I have been grateful.  I have asked for forgiveness, and starting the process to forgive myself.
A lot of people take for granted the blessings we often get, they get clouded by bills, debts, work and things and situations we choose to remain in for whatever reason.
I'd like to think as of today I will no longer be that person and as of today, because I am totally aware of it, I am going to take charge and start a positive road.
I know there are bumps on the road, but if I concentrate enough on the good things instead of everything bad I think that is happening to me, well, I think I will be fine.

O is for Open

Open to new beginnings and new possibilities Open to change Open to new challenges, ready to face them, to conquer them Open to changing my mind, admitting when I am wrong Open to new discussions and new ideas Open to receive and to give Open for new and old experiences, sometimes it is good to try again Open to to suggestions I am open to everything positive the universe wants to send my way, I am ready to learn new things, master old ones, and use what I have already learned and know.

"Energy goes where attention flows" ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Whatever you focus on, expands"